OK. Im 18 and im in college but my mom still controls my life with her threats. She is paying for college, my car and everything else. She is going to be at my dorm in about 30 minutes. I got my eyebrow pierced on Saturday and she is going to be pissed if she sees it. Any ideas on how to cover it up . A bandade might work but she will know I didn't get hurt or anything. Please help. This is in this section because she is going to think it is another sign of me being gay. I am gay and she dosen't want anyone to know. So yeah.
2006-09-19 12:35:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
To the first guy, that is good advice but she promised to get ne a car before october. That's in some days. I don't want to mess that up.
2006-09-19 12:43:13 · update #1
Put on an eyepatch for Talk Like a Pirate day.
2006-09-19 12:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by lcraesharbor 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Option 1: Go borrow some first-aid tape and gauze and get someone's help to put a serious-looking bandage over this piercing. Tell Mom that you had a little accident (wild party, flying glass) and you are strictly forbidden to remove this bandage for a week.
Option 2: No bandage, no prevarication. "Yeah, I had it pierced. It's part of my progress toward my adult gay identity."
I suggest getting a job that will let you be at least partly independent financially so that what Mom thinks has a less draconian impact.
2006-09-19 13:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by silver.graph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an adult now. If she doesn't like it tough. If she quits paying for your school/car then it's going to be hard on you, but you'll just have to deal with it. You can't let her control your life, you need to live the way you want to, and shouldn't let ANYONE get in the way of that.
2006-09-19 12:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by MysticTortoise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be loud and proud boy. Who cares what other people think about whether your gay or not. Your mum will one day need to accept the fact you are and if she turns her back on you it couldn't be for very long, your are still her son gay or not.
2006-09-19 13:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 04:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by ridinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman quick and get a bandanna; it OK to where inside whereas a hat looks to obvious.
2006-09-19 12:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When she comes in say, "Hi Mum! do you like my piercing."
Go out and do stuff together. Be real nice and tell her you are gay.
If she stops your allowance, well welcome to the real world.
2006-09-19 12:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the first time in your life, face her! if she really loves you she'll have to accept you as you are...and if she threatens to make you moneyless...say you'll have to do worst things to get money, then she'll calm down. Trust me, do it! otherwise you won't feel ok.
2006-09-19 12:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by Fabulous, young and broke! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a bandanna or beanie would probably do the trick you could always try fronting her she might respect you more for it good luck
2006-09-19 13:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by charlie! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a beanie or other kinda hat that would cover it.
2006-09-19 12:53:41 · answer #10 · answered by 2crooked 2b straight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋