I was in a similar relationship 8 years ago both ending in the same ways, but the break ups were for different reasons. Since this relationship ended the same eventws have occurred not completely the same but similar do you think the outcome of this relationship will have the same out come as the relationship from 8 years ago. or can they be different.
2006-09-19 12:11:01 · 7 answers · asked by swampass34 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i have to go back to what my mom has told me (man i hate saying this) she told me that i have the tendience to find the same bad girl, or the girl that is not right for me...so i think once you see something that you had once before you liked it then and you kind of want to remember that even if it right or wrong
2006-09-19 12:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by royalholden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We tend to be controlled subconciously by the way we were scripted. We like the comfort of things and behaviors of others that we are familiar with, regardless of whether it is a positive or negative familiarity.
However, we can live conciously by identifying the negative familiarities and CHOOSING to make different choices in our relationships based on that information.
Some good books I recommend.
7 Habits of Highly Effective People-Steven Covey
Don't Take it Personally-Elayne Savage
Getting the Love You Want-Harville Hendrix
2006-09-19 19:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by newgirlnow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may feel that way, but I feel that as time goes on, you will change, and once you do, so will your relationships. You said it yourself that there are little changes. Grow, learn who you are, and so will the outcome. Promise! Good luck maybe it will happen on your ninth years!
2006-09-19 19:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by wen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
History only repeats it's self if you let it. Try dating someone you think you would not ever date. I did that and now I am very happy and getting married.
2006-09-19 19:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by confused7873 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not in mine.Only one time around the block
2006-09-19 22:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by dreamweaver021557 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There both. Just try harder next time. Good Luck.
2006-09-19 19:14:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!!
2006-09-19 19:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by Richard D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋