i dont know what to do. the only boy that is nice to me asked how i was feeling and chachi my friend,tells him bad words and to back of. i felt bad for him i told him i had to talk to her. he is so nice he was not mad. help!
2006-09-19 12:01:09 · 11 answers · asked by Carol 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nothing except abandon her completely
You can't change people, it's impossible.
If her behavior is unacceptable to you, and you allow her to continue to be your friend, you have no one but yourself to blame for the consequences.
FP
2006-09-19 12:03:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person is NOT a friend. A friend is not mean to anyone. And if they are, they should be adult enough to make a sincere apology.
You do NOT have to talk to her regarding this boy. It's none of her business.
All she's going to do is cause you heartache. Take it from someone who's pushing 60. Been there, done that.
Run from this person. There are decent people out there who will make a good friend for you.
2006-09-19 19:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by Barry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOnt worry,this is waht u shud do! Tell hur friend that u wanna be his friend,wether she wants 2 also or not,and that u wud appreciate if she stopped trashing ur new friend.And pic who u want 2 be friends with more in csase she makes u choose sides.But 1st ask her if she has a reason 2 trash him.Good Luck!
2006-09-19 19:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by chocolate tea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a daughter who is 7 yrs old and people she has told me that some kids at school have picked on her about her being "CHUBBY!" I was PRETTY discoureged when I heard that and I told her if they persist on picking at her...PICK back!! Stand your ground and NEVER let any body put you down because YOU are the most BEAUTIFUL girl ALIVE. I tell her THEY are jealous of HER so they have to find SOMEONE to pick on!
2006-09-19 19:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control what other people do even if it's something bad ot not nice. The only thing you can do is tell your friend what you think and feel. If they ignore you then they aren't really your friend. Then drop them and find new, nicer friends.
2006-09-19 19:04:46 · answer #5 · answered by Janet lw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you could apologize to the boy for your friend. Then I would tell your friend that you felt uncomfortable with the way she talked to him.
2006-09-19 19:05:28 · answer #6 · answered by BMac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a new friend. Mean People Suck
2006-09-19 19:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by Nc Jay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is no friend, with friends like that who needs enemies.
2006-09-19 19:04:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you, I'd talk to that friend.
2006-09-19 19:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by t-prad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel!!!
2006-09-19 19:06:19 · answer #10 · answered by Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋