We have been together for two months. We already said I love you and it is different then any relationship I have ever been in. We either stay at my house or his house every night. He gave me a key to his apartment. But he has not asked me to move in. All this going back and forth from each others houses is also very hard on our lives since we both have kids. So really what my question is...Should I say something to him about moving in and if yes what should I say? As well, could he be waiting on me to say something?
2006-09-19 11:59:03 · 13 answers · asked by Amber 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We have been together for two months. We already said I love you and it is different then any relationship I have ever been in. We either stay at my house or his house every night. He gave me a key to his apartment. But he has not asked me to move in. All this going back and forth from each others houses is also very hard on our lives since we both have kids. So really what my question is...Should I say something to him about moving in and if yes what should I say? As well, could he be waiting on me to say something? As well, I have added because of you are really writting some stupid stuff...We are both Adults have been in long relationships. Been married and divorced.
2006-09-19 12:06:13 · update #1
We have both been married and divorced. Its hard on my four year old to travel from both houses.
2006-09-19 12:07:01 · update #2
I'd mention it to him.Just explain how much money the two of you could save.After all, your together all the time anyway..
2006-09-19 12:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by Chase 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two months and it feels like you have found the one but in truth you really need more time to get to know a person. Since you both have kids you really shouldn't rush into anything too fast. Especially if it doesn't work out how would the kids feel and there emotions that they would have to deal with. It is thoughtful of him to give you a key it sounds like he is letting you know he is growing more fond of you and a trust is being built but to want to move in after two months would not be a wise idea. You may have to go back and forth for a while but you should really take it slow for now it is worth the effort for both you and him and the children involved.
2006-09-19 12:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by Happy2bAlive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say come up with a way to indirectly bring up the situation, hoping he may ask you to move in. It's still a big deal to actually share your living space with someone, much bigger than constantly hanging out there or sleeping over. Two months is not a long time, and although this may seem like a "different" relationship than any other you have had, that's too soon to be moving in together, at least in my opinion.
2006-09-19 12:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by Zambartas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should say is hey i wanna move in with you and you will never have to marry me ,but i'll give you all the sex you want for free and when you get all you want you can dump me like i was a used person. Sound cruel and ununderstanding? Maybe but that is exactly what you're telling him even if he ask you to move in with him. The end result is the same. Remember the old saying, why buy the cow when the milk is free? Thats the case here.
2006-09-19 12:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two months! I've been with my very significant other for over two years and we haven't even discussed moving in together.
Slow down, really get to know each other, find all of his faults and flaws, then revisit the moving in part after a year.
2006-09-19 12:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by RT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both have kids, then you should definitely maintain seperate households and sleep at your own homes every night. they are and should always be your top priority. providing a stable home for your child(ren) is more important than making it more convenient for you to sleep with some man.
i'm sure the relationship you had with the person who fathered your child(ren) was "different" and special, too, but look where they are now.
2006-09-19 12:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by buffysummers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say slow down and deal with the going back and forth for a while....
i would never move in with somone i knew for two months. you dont know someone after 2 months my friend
2006-09-19 12:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by thankgodformaryjane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes just say I'm tired of going back and forth to each other's house so what do yo say/ can i move in with you?
2006-09-19 12:35:53 · answer #8 · answered by Servers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT!!!!!!
Two months is not long enough to find out that it will be the best way to go.
How do your kids feel about him, boy they can wreak havoc if they don't like him!
2006-09-19 12:04:56 · answer #9 · answered by Swaggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your bloomers on honey! dont blow a gasket!!!! its only been two months...slow it down...there are children involved so wait it out a bit before you move in
2006-09-19 12:08:55 · answer #10 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋