all right so there is this guy that i like and we hung out the whole time at a football game. People say we were flirting and for a little bit maybe i thought so too. He has a girlfriend who is a freshman in highschool. We are in 8th grade. And no hes not all that hot. Anyway people keep saying he likes me but he he talks to alot of girls if you know what i mean. our homecoming game is this friday and his girlfriend isnt coming. I just dont know what to do and i cant get over him. Please help!!!!! If your not gonna be serious then dont answer this.
2006-09-19 11:47:52 · 22 answers · asked by sky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think you should prob ask him if hed like to go to the game with you and see what happens i mean thats kind of your only option becuase you dont want to just pass it by and never know what could happen you know
and it doesnt matter if hes not all that cute. looks are not everything, at all.
just rememeber
you have to gamble
if you want to win
2006-09-19 11:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by Jordan Alexis 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Just go to the game with no expectations and let the rest just happen. If he really does have a girlfriend then really he is off limits until he doesnt. Just try to be patient as you are only in grade 8 and if this guy isnt the one for you there will be plenty of others.
2006-09-19 18:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by auburn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest to not go with him to the homecoming. You never know, maybe at the last minute his girlfriend will end up going while both of you guys are already there. And boy is there gonna be some cat fighting. And even worst, everyone there will see, and they'll be talking about you for the rest of the school year.
2006-09-19 18:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by orange_claw 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont really know what you would do in this situation but I think you should try to find another guy. You could probably find a better guy. I was in the sqame situation as you and I found a better guy in only 2 weeks! He is still currently my boyfriend and have going out for over 2 months. But.. If you really like this guy you should keep his number just in case his girlfrend and him break up and then you could move in on him :)
2006-09-19 18:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by guess_who 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont want to hear this... But the drama youd create by continuing the flirt thang will only distract you from your main purpose of being at school and thats to learn. If youre sitting in class wondering if his girls going to kick your butt, you'll be distracted and its truly more stress than its worth dont you think? There is other fish in the sea. Sorry Im so to the point.
2006-09-19 19:01:47 · answer #5 · answered by matt z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him. Maybe the situatiuon with his girlfriend isn't as good as it seems and that's why he's wanting to get closer to you. You should let him know how you feel cuz if you don't you'll never know and always wonder "what if". If his Girlfriend isn't going to the homecoming then why don't you ask him to go with you, tell him just as friends since you know he has a girlfriend and then go from there, but atleast that's a start to maybe somehting more in the future.
2006-09-19 18:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Shortie♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He has a girlfriend - big red flag. If he is flirting with you, he isn't being true to her. If he isn't man enough to break it to her (gently I hope) that he wants to see other people, he wouldn't be man enough to afford you the same courtesy. Hang in there though, because romances come and go and if he really likes you, he may do the right thing by both of the women in his life. Good luck dear.
2006-09-19 18:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend. Leave him be and find a single boy. He's not all that hot and talks to a lot of girls and has a girlfriend, why can't you get over him? Sounds like he gets around, who wants that?
2006-09-19 18:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to be yourself. That is the most important part. Times have changed and it is okay to go after a guy yourself. So if you see a guy you really like, why not ask him out. It really is okay to do it that way now. So do not be shy, just get yourself a boy friend and it will get easier for the next time you need to find yourself one.
2006-09-19 18:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you I don't think you should do anything. As well, since you have other intentions with him you should stay away from him. He has a girlfriend. Just ask yourself this, How would you feel if someone was trying to get with your boyfriend. There are tons of guys out there. This one is taken. Treat it with as much respect as you would like someone to treat your relationship.
2006-09-19 18:54:59 · answer #10 · answered by Amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u said he has a girlfriend! honey don't wast your time on a cheating guy unless you are ready to be cheated on!! ya it's all good to be friends but don't let it go any further than that unless he is willing to split with the other girl first. Show respect to the girlfriend and better yet have respect for yourself you deserve it.
2006-09-19 18:55:45 · answer #11 · answered by relaxmax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋