This guy i met makes me feel so sexy, i just look at him and i really fancy him. hes georgeous, I do worry about showing my feeling too much as he may take advantage, but i do fancy him, i think he fancies me as well, we have only been out together once, i don,t want to frighen him off by coming on too strong. I don,t want to have sex too soon either. I do think i could fall in love with him though. I keep wanting to hold him. I think about sex alot as well and know i should not as i am a christian, so i have to keep a hold on it. i am scared of frightening him off, as i want to keep him.
2006-09-19 11:38:07 · 6 answers · asked by guysmithdenise 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
see how the relationship develops,don't rush into things, let them come naturally, enjoy the relationship and the sexually side will come when your both ready.
2006-09-19 11:45:14 · answer #1 · answered by Raine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey by the sounds of it -you need to chill out baby!!! It is great to feel the way that you do but remember .......take it one step at a time, generally when people attempt to mask strong feelings they are manifested in other ways such as through your body language.
Enjoy your time - Live and enjoy your experience in the in the Now!!! Neither you nor I can say what is going to happen tommorrow.
As for your feelings of guilt - We are only human and as such have human feelings - I do not see the link with christianity - you are allowed to have strong feelings for another even of a sexual nature - lets face it there are worse things in this world than indulging in some harmless fantasy.
Try and take your relationship one step at a time - but most of all enjoy it, relish it and be happy :-)
Good luck I wish you both well
Simon
2006-09-19 12:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by Simon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy the experience of sexual desire, it is a healthy and natural impulse that in no way conflicts with your christianity. Your sexuality is within God's plan- how could it not be? It is what you do with your sexuality that creates the opportunity for you to show your light as a decent human of integrity. Cherish that desire and enjoy allowing it to unfold but in my experience making him wait for full sex is one of the best ways to test his interest in you. Give him more of you and let him feel that you value each stage, let each increase be something of worth to both of you. If he is only interested in full and immediate sex he will not hang around, he is not the one for you and you will have your answer.
2006-09-19 11:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by piersybaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been out together on a date already so he knows you're interested in him so why not ask him if he wants to go on another date he might be waiting for you to ask but you'll never know if you don't ask
2006-09-19 11:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and stay positive
don't crawl to him if he wants you he will ask you out again,
if not chalk it up to experience.
2006-09-20 08:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep with him. job done.
live happilly ever after.
2006-09-19 11:40:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋