How can i tell if my boyfriend is a closet homosexual?

Question

I have a gnawing feeling he is

Answer 1

If he's not out and gay, he may not be aware he's gay, or may not have come out to himself. In which case, he's not going to come out to you. If want to experiment, try getting into a threesome with a bi guy. Make sure that the guest blows your bf's c0ck, see how bf reacts. Also try lying in a circle with bi guy licking you, you giving bf a bj and him giving bi guy a bj. Watch what happens. If he is repressed about his feelings, being in a situation where he feels safe to express his sexuality will help him come out. You might lose your bf but you will have done him a big favour.

Answer 2

Others have sent you plenty of good material, but I'll add this. If he is under 25 and does not want to have sex at least as much as you do, you might have reason for your suspicions. If the two of you are not having actual sex and he is the one who demurs, he most likely is gay. The computer-porn check is a very good suggestion. Also check between his mattresses for print matter.

Answer 3

I dated a guy who was still in the closet once. I never even saw it coming. But now that I look back it was oh so obvious.

Answer 4

Many men act gay who are straight as a narrow road; and other men who are very butch are in fact gay. If you really think he is, simply ask him. However; make sure you are asking for the right reasons and not out of over thinking and overblown circumstances. This could be a real hard core blow to his ego and your relationship. Make sure prior to asking, that you have evidence to back it up; otherwise let sleeping dogs lye.

Answer 5

Awwww thats cute:) i'm 17 & my boyfriend is 30, i appreciate him for who he's. One time we went to a plaza mall, then out of nowhere when we were walking my fingers were merely swinging & he managed to snatch my proper hand & carry it, i had to immediately ruin loose yet he held it tight, I merely forget the international round me. some women stated that we make a cute couple, we did not get carry of any hate even if we did, i does no longer pay interest to them, because I probable wont see them day after today.

Answer 6

Go through his computer porn. If you can't find it, keep looking. He's got it.

That will tell you a lot about what he fantasizes about. But, not all fantasy is reality though.

Answer 7

you must not be in a very open and honest relationship if you think you're dating a closet homosexual. if he is you need to end it asap, things will be very very bad if he is.

Answer 8

Hmm, does he dress better than you? Spend more time in the bathroom than you do? Does he prefer anal sex? Heres a good trick, tell him he has something on his shoe, if he brings his leg up from behind to check his shoe (like looks over his shoulder) rather than bring it up in the front, he might be a gay man. Its called the shoe check and its been tried and true on many of my friends.

Answer 9

ask him to take a look at his fingernails...if he stretches his hand to see them he's definitely gay, if he turns the hand around and bend the fingers towards the palm, he's straight, don't worry, if you see that he hesitates, he's bi, if he looks at his toenails even though you asked him to look at his fingernails, he may be a transvestite. good luck!

Answer 10

i would go with my gut feeling. if i have to ask then maybe he is. the question should be should you leave him or stay with him.