Love and Lost iare not in my dictionary
So...
Can any1 out there convince me that love is actually a good thing..!
OR
Am i gonna just never love any1 ever
2006-09-19 11:05:26 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Love has killed me. Love has saved me. Love is just something that happens when you aren't looking for it. A feeling and emotional experience and a nightmare rolled into one. You can't have love without some pain. However the euphoria you have for love ( being in love, feeling loved and loving for no other reason) far outweigh the pain. Love/Hate, right/wrong. You just can't have one without the other. It is balancing life on life's terms. Sorry I have no easy answer for you.
2006-09-19 11:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by warandpeace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know what? everyone on earth has a different experience of love. sometimes it is painful some times it is very cheerful.
Can't u be happy in the world seeing that the person who loves u the most (ur mother) finds herself the happiest person on earth when u were born. How can u say that love is not a good thing.
Rest all upon u How u take all that.
2006-09-23 04:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by amrita k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To find love is the best thing that can happen to you or your right it could be the worse thing that can happen. But in love it's a chance that you take so i'ts up to you if you want Love. But if it's the worst thing that can happen it was an experience and you move on to the next . You know what they say IT'S BETTER TO LOVETHEN NOT LOVE AT ALL!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-19 17:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by Koko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes love is something that you feel for a friend or family member. Sometimes love is something you feel for a special someone. Another words there are different kinds of love. And also, what a lot of people don't like is when they are infatuated with someone and that doesn't work out. True love is a lot stronger than that and something to be treasured not dreaded.
2006-09-19 11:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by eileen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't do love by choice . It happens by chance .
Give it some time & I am sure cupid's arrow will hit you .
I am not going to convince you that love is actually a good thing and blah-blah-blah Get your first hand experience & opinion about it dude .
And since you already have doubts about love being the worst thing , you will actually save that 'someone' from you by not loving her .
2006-09-22 23:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every day I thank my lucky stars that I'm married to my husband. We love each other very much and make each other happy. I think love is a good thing. If he left me tomorrow, I'm still be happy with the 10 years we've had together.
2006-09-19 11:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a good thing when u wake up in the morning o find them gazing at you, they had been watching you sleep.but its also the worst thing coz when it all goes wrong you end up having the most upsetting feelings u will ever encounter. All i can really say is experience love.... enjoy it whilst it lasts, learn from your mistakes and cherish every moment you have it
2006-09-19 11:09:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the worst and best thing that can happen to a person...
I also remeber the quote about how it is better to have loved and been heartbroken than to never love at all.
2006-09-19 11:07:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is love?
When we claim that it's love that we have for someone, are we correct? Something to ponder upon..... Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caught within your chest? It isn't love, it's like. You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right? It isn't love, it's lust. Are you proud, and eager to show them off? It isn't love, it's luck. Do you want them because you know they're there? It isn't love, it's loneliness. Are you there because it's what everyone wants? It isn't love, it's loyalty. Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand? It isn't love, it's low confidence. Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don't want to hurt them? It isn't love, it's pity. Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat? It isn't love, it's infatuation. Do you pardon their faults because you care about them? It isn't love, it's friendship. Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of? It isn't love, it's a lie. Are you willing to give all of your favourite things for their sake? It isn't love, it's charity. Does your heart ache and break when they're sad? Then it's love. Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong? Then it's love. Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts? Then it's love. Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls you close and holds you there? Then it's love. Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are? Then it's love. Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret? Then it's love. Would you allow them to leave you, not because they want to but because they have to? Then its love. Would you give them your heart, your life, your death? Then it's love. Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so, why do we love? Why is it all we search for in life? This pain, this agony? Why is it all we long for? This torture, this powerful death of self? Why? The answer is so simple cause it's...LOVE. It is such an addiction that even people who are not having it wish to experience and share it with someone!
2006-09-19 11:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by babai_ib 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love is not a worst thing but people make it worst so it depends on ur heart not on u whether to love r not but my dear friend love is a best medicine in this world .....that never means bcoz we need medicine so we have to fall in love......u should not go 4 love let love commes to ur heart,then u vil know better whether love is worst thing or special.......
2006-09-19 13:41:48 · answer #10 · answered by Rakesh L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋