Our relationship has been really stong lately, so im not sure. He could be afraid of the future, but we don't talk about marrage. I don't really know why he would want so much time away when its been so good. and im not just saying that, we are doing really well. For the last month he has not wanted to hang out monday to friday. so that only leaves the weekend, and i really want to see him but I also want to hang out with my friends on my day off. Any more suggestions?
2006-09-19 10:52:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my answer is the same as before. He is cheating or thinking about it.
2006-09-19 10:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by womanofthefire80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good you don't talk about marriage because it wouldn't work out. He has changed and he needs to find him self and what he wants out of the relationship. You need your space also, If it is meant to be then it will be . He is doing someone else because of the 5 day gap he is not with you. So you need to be real about it and tell him how you feel and what you feel about the gap of days he is not with you.This all of a sudden thing is just not kosher.
2006-09-19 18:11:33 · answer #2 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read your previous question, thanks for providing more info. It's still difficult to warrant a guess, one thing I can say is that sometimes one's perception of the relationship differs remarkably from their partner's perception. At times, one feels things are going good, but next thing you know the bomb goes off. If your relationship is truly good, try talking to him about it - not in an accusatory way, but casually inquire what he's up to these days, and mention that it seems to you that you used to spend more time together before.
2006-09-19 18:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to find the right balance between a social life and being alone.
2006-09-19 17:54:19 · answer #4 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy likes you as much as you like him he would be with you all the time or ring you as much as he could!
I would say he wants out but is too scared or too weak to tell you.
2006-09-19 18:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by Swaggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to re-assess your definition of "really strong'.
who cares anyway? why would you want to hang with someone who doesn't necessarily want to hang with you?
give him as much space as he needs - and TAKE as much space as YOU need!
2006-09-19 17:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by trushred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pssssst, he's is seeing someone else on your weekend "off".
2006-09-19 17:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋