I told my friend something that I never told anyone. Something serious. Right now we are fighting, and I dont want her to tell. any suggestions?
2006-09-19 10:50:15 · 19 answers · asked by Gothic Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can kill her, cut out her tongue or pay her large sums of money for the rest of your life. On the other hand you can trust her to keep your secret.
2006-09-19 10:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. I think I would have a heart to heart talk and remind her/him that you are just mad at each other and to respect the friendship and what goes along with it. The less mature the other person is though, the more chance the sensitive info could be used in a malicious manner.
People shouldn't fight anyway. Friendship means fighting sometimes but true friendship also means trust!
2006-09-19 10:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are my suggestions
1) Never tell anyone your secrets again!(not even your sister because she might tell on you when you make her mad)
2) Say sorry and say you want to be friends with her again.
3) Or threat her
4) Or if she told everyone your secret then revenge and or tell everyone her secrets.
2006-09-19 11:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by hurshey k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to her clamly and reslove things if that doesn't work out then sit and hope she doesn't tell anyone
Here is a suggestion
Never trust anyone not even a close friend cuz people are back --stabing and they will get mad at you and start talking abt you and telling people about you ...Trust only you and no one else
2006-09-19 11:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing that you can do but hope that she doesn't say anything. why are you fighting? is it something stupid. if it is be the bigger person and apologize so that the two of you can continue to be friends. it don't matter who is wrong or who is right just apologize if you want to keep this secret a secret.
2006-09-19 10:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't bring it up right now. While you thought it was very important she may not. Hopefully the fight will blow over and nothing will be said. Do NOT remind her that she knows this. It will all pass over.
2006-09-19 10:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by silver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok properly you definately could inform him sometime. initiate out as "friends" and ask him if he desires to pass to dinner or a action picture just to get in touch. After awhile of going as friends you're able to ask him if he desires to pass forward. If he says its to quickly wait. purely get to be responsive to him back then ask. sturdy success (:
2016-10-01 03:54:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was so important and you told someone you must trust that person,even when they get mad they shouldnt say anything and if they do then you need to re-evaluate your frienships from now on theres only one person my best friend with whom i can trust with anything at anytime
2006-09-19 11:11:37 · answer #8 · answered by shelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really believe her to be a tru friend then just trust her to not tell anyone. but if she do, then its time to whoop that a$$.
2006-09-19 11:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Begin to try yourself for the moment where she will tell it everywhere!
(=> it will make you stronger)
That's my only suggestions cause i had live same stuff....it suck, but you should'nt tell her this thing...
2006-09-19 10:54:08 · answer #10 · answered by Titisse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋