Here are the facts:
My boyfriend and i were broken up for several months.
I had begun dating another guy. He and I had sexual intercourse. Only once. This one time, he DID use a condom, but the condom got stuck inside of me when he pulled out. Around the time he and I had sexual intercourse, I had been anticipating my period. And a couple of days after he and I had intercourse, I had my period.
I ended up finding out that THAT guy had a girlfriend that I knew nothing about. I dumped him.
I got back with my ex. A couple of weeks after my period (around the time i would have been ovulating), He and I had sex multiple times with no protection, not even the pull-out method.
The next month, I had no period. I waited a couple more weeks, then took a test and it was positive. My doc's due date goes along perfectly with my ex, but I am always making him reassure me that my due date isnt off by those two weeks. Is it possible that i'm pregnant by the other guy? what do you think?
2006-09-19 10:46:08 · 17 answers · asked by janicejohanson5938 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
All forms of determining my unborn child's gestational age have agreed with one another. Fundal height, heart tones, ultrasound, and LMP. My doctor is convinced that my due date is accurate to within a couple of days. And i feel that way as well. I'm beginning to believe that it's my own cruel mind making me question my child's father. I had a fairly early ultrasound, which I have read up on and found out to be pretty accurate. I was hoping for some reassurance, I suppose. I'd be heartbroken if my child was by the other guy, since I've recently found out he has another child he does not see or take care of. BTW, to the woman telling me not to have so much sex.. I'm not some 17 year old sleeze. I'm in a situation you may find yourself in one day. =)
2006-09-19 11:00:28 · update #1
I wanted you to call me a worry-wart. =)
2006-09-19 11:14:51 · update #2
OK...This is very funny. Not the question but the answer that you got from Alli;Honey..It takes only ONE sperm to make a baby, not two. its like a race, the 1st one there gets the golden goose, sperm # 2 is **** out of luck,If you had a period after having sex with the cheating lover, then I doubt if hes the proud papa. I'm placing my money on your bf that you got back with. But If you truly want to know for sure, after the birth, have a DNA test done.
Good Luck...
2006-09-19 11:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by Mommy Dearest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it really doesn't make any difference. If you're smart, you'll stop thinking about it, and stop wondering and questioning yourself. If I were you, I would never ever consider ANY possibility of this child being the other man's.
You and your BF had unrpotected sex. You got pregnant. End of story.
Why plant the seeds of doubt in anyone's head? What good will come of it?? Will questioning the child's paternity be helpful or harmful to the baby? Stop indulging yourself by playing out these stupid scenarios. Think of the baby's future and marry your BF right away, and be a family.
2006-09-19 10:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't be ovulating until 14 days after your period begins. It seems like your pregnant because of your boyfriend. The only way to know is a DNA test after the baby is born.
2006-09-19 10:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs Apple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible that it could be either one. But just watch your due dates while you are pregnant. They will flex as the baby grows. It can go either way and this will help you figure it out. Then if you are still not sure then get the baby tested after birth.
congratulations and good luck
2006-09-19 10:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a DNA test and go to the Maury show to find out
Good Luck
And Enjoy
PS stay with one man and have fun and get sex out of him i know but just do not change
2006-09-19 13:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by Poptart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the dates match with what all happened I wouldn't worry about it. There is always the dna test after the baby is born.
2006-09-19 10:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by johnvarelman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible but very unlikely. Just try not to stress about it b/c you really don't want to stress why you are pregnant. If you can, talk to your current b/f and tell him the situation (if you haven't already) If he doesn't know anything about the other guy, then I would definetly tell him now. It's not like you cheated on him or anything.
2006-09-19 10:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by amanda725_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's possible, but since you had your period right after sex with the other guy, im thinking that it's your ex's. due dates can always be off. i don't think they really know for sure anyway.
2006-09-19 10:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have an amniocentesis and do a DNA test
If I were your bf I would insist on a DNA test before I would allow my name put on the birth cert.
is it possible YES is it likely NO better to be safe than sorry tho
Do the DNA test
2006-09-19 10:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by rwl_is_taken 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get it checked when the baby is born! It IS possible that BOTH have contributed to the child. You shouldn't have sex so much without protection though, that was your first mistake.
2006-09-19 10:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by Alli 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋