everytime I get off the phone with me ex he says he luvs me, but at school I hug him and say I luv you. One day in the morning i walked up to him and said his name. he put his arm around me and walked me to the band room. He has a girlfriend now. everytime when I talk about the future he always says take me with you and when I was going with him I had a strong feeling that he was cheating on me. When I heard that he had another girlfriend it hurted so bad. Me and him had a plan to have a baby and the only reason why he broke up with me was because there was this rumor in the 8th grade saying I had sex with alot of boyz.I really luv him and I never would forget him thiz iz true luv. I had a plan to rent a limo and we go out to eat at Olive Garden ( my favorite) On my birthday he said he was going to buy me a promise ring for us to be together 4-ever. He never got it. I LUV HIM ALOT I DON'T THINK HE KNOWS IT! I never wanted to lose him I told him that and I lost him he's gone.
2006-09-19 10:29:02 · 18 answers · asked by Mariah W 1 in Dining Out ➔ Other - Dining Out
Everyone always tells the young that they are too young for love, I don't buy that. When you love someone you love them, case closed. Sounds to me like he still has feelings for you; this new girlfriend is more than likely a rebound girl, as for him still being in love with you it's very possible. It's only him that can tell you that for sure though. I would suggest that just the 2 of you go somewhere neutral that doesn't have any history behind it for you and just talk about how you feel.
Breaking up always hurts, doesn't matter how old or young you are. My ex and I still talk about things we want to do together 20 years from now, but at this point we are just friends. I believe he still cares about me, I don't know that he's still in love with me but I know I still mean something to him. The pain does get easier to deal with as the time goes along, but I believe we never forget our first loves, and sometimes if they are right for us they come back.
2006-09-19 15:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by GoodJob 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever since you were really little, you've heard fairy tales about love. These have shaped your ideas about what love is. This is a problem women have more than men. That's because while you were hearing about how someday your prince would come he was hearing about what it's like to be an adventurer hero.
It will take a while to get over the fairy tales. Some women never do. But just use your own mind and own intelligence and eventually you'll see for yourself. It's way better than the stories and totally different.
Consider your ex-boyfriend to be the first lesson on the way to finding out what's really real. That won't make it hurt any less, but it will put the pain to good use.
2006-09-19 10:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should concentrate on your school work. As your spelling and gramar is atrocious. Second if he has a girlfriend no matter how you feel you should back off. He left you it is over, maybe he is trying you to see if you are the easy girl the rumours said you were. I think you need to grow up a little bit more before you are worrying about such things. Get your head off of him and back into what is important your future. Young girls need to think of how they will support themselves when high school is over and not rely on a man for this. Good Luck
2006-09-19 10:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by lost_soul 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh hun .. i you might really care for him but you dont truly love him ..
if you do then tell me what is true love.. boy so many times i thought i was in love.. till i met hubby .. its a whole another feeling..
there is nothing else like it ..
and your in the 8th grade and wanting to have a baby?? OMG hun you need to move on and grow up ..
a promise ring means nothing, A WEDDING band means allot more .. and if he is telling you he loves you but has a g/f he is just telling you what you want to hear so he can have sex with you ..
dont rush into growing up.. one day your gonna find the right guy and it will be magical .. but let this one go. he is your EX for a reason
2006-09-19 10:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Lisa♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He Could Just Want A 1 Night Stand.
2006-09-19 10:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by mks 7-15-02 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He seems to not be able to commit,and you both need to move on..it's hard,but so is..hangin on.You may never know what love means to him,but you know your own feelings and ..he knows them too...move on,and if he ever catches up with you(don't bet on it) then there may be a chance..
Here is a book I found helpful,but don't think it is a cure all...
The Four Agreements..I haven't read the others,but will
http://www.miguelruiz.com/books.html
2006-09-19 12:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are WAY WAY WAY too young for love- I don't think you even know what it is. And you are also WAY too young, and both of you are too immature to have a baby together. Just enjoy being young, don't have sex because I don't think you are old enough to handle the consequences of STD's or parenthood. Just focus on school and friends, and try not to grow up too fast.
2006-09-19 10:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by The New Mrs. Nguyen 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Give him a minute to clear his head. Yes, it hurts to know that he is with someone else. He is just playing with your emotions. Just remember, if it is TRUE love, he will come back to you no matter what. You then want have to wonder whether he still loves you or not.
2006-09-19 11:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by mjt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he may be scared and dosn't know what he wants right now i'm sure he loves you but men are hard to get through to sometimes and some are afraid of comitment too. sooner or later he's going to realize he's got a great girl right in front of him and one day a lightbulb may turn on.
2006-09-19 12:36:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think u r wasting your time. Dont ruun behind him.
Dont loose your self respect. Do love a person who loves you.
I hope the person you have mentioned above doesn't deserve your true love.
2006-09-20 00:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by kummu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋