Do homosexuals discriminate fairly ?

Question

Well so much is being said about discrimination, or at least the negative side of it, and the question asks why homosexuals discriminate against members of the opposite sex ?

Do not gay men discriminate against women, in fact they do not marry a gay women ?

Answer 1

"Discriminate" has many meanings, one of which means choose as to preference. There's nothing wrong with having an opinion and acting on it.

For example.. Would you say that I've wronged other men because I have an affinity for ONLY women?

Also, wouldn't you agree that a black woman has every right date only black men?
Sometimes, discrimination only means having the freedom to like/choose as you wish.

Answer 2

I agree with Xan Shui in that one cannot discriminate fairly. That's if you're looking at discrimination in the sense of excluding someone from something that they're entitled to, such as equal access to education for all, or voting rights. That sort of discrimation is generally governed by law, and you can take someone to court for it if you choose. If you're talking about in the sense of excluding someone from your dating pool based on personal preferences, well, people like what they like, and all sexually identifying groups (hetero, gay, lesbian, bi, etc) discriminate in that sense, and one can't dictate another's personal preferences, whether you see them as fair or not.

My question to you is how does being a gay male equate to being a gay woman? Gay men prefer sex with men, gay women prefer sex with women. Why WOULD they marry, and how is the fact that they don't, equivalent to "discrimination" in your mind? Also, why is it only discrimination on the gay male's part to you, but not discrimation on the part of gay women?

I know MANY gay men who are lovely people, and great friends to a lot of women, myself included. Not having sex with someone,
or not marrying them because your preference is for your own sex is not discrimation other than the in the sense of personal choice, and frankly, it's no one's business.

Your question seems to be both naive and uninformed as to alternative sexualities, and frankly, a bit homophobic. I really hope that you just write poorly, and don't actually believe what you're asking. Look at it this way: your question is, or borders on being, discrimatory towards gay males, as you don't know what you're even asking. You also may want to look up 'homophobic'.

You should really educate yourself about these matters before questioning them. I'm hetero, but managed to educate myself on it, in order to better understand and befriend a greater portion of the human population.

Answer 3

Most of us tend to be 'unfair' and almost 'hatefull' when we're younger. May of my male, gay friends who are early 20's have a real problem with women, as if they were some walking disease. But @ 40, I love 'em to death. They're fun to be around moreso than most straight men will ever experience. I'm male and I get along great with my girls. No games, no expectations. Just sweet guy off girl action.

~jc

Answer 4

Homosexuality is an abnormality and mental illness. The AMA classified it as such until their was pressure from those who wanted to give into their lusts. The current society tells you being gay is okay, so those who feel a slight urge towards the same sex quickly embrace it. This does not answer your question, but tells you that if you start with a false premise , of course d iscrimination will exist . Peace.

Answer 5

1. No.

2. This question and the thought behind it is just absolute idiocy. With the same thoughts running along that line, aren't heterosexuals disciminating against every other person of the same sex since they only choose one person to marry and have a family with?

Answer 6

No one discriminates fairly.

Xan Shui
Philosophic Philanthropist, Honest Man