if you were going out with someone who is really goodlooking..?

Question

but has five little raised acne scars on each shoulder,would you find it a turn off or does it matter?

i was just wondering if someone would judge me on myown scars

Answer 1

if you really like the guy then it's no big deal i would say. if you get turned off by that then you are friggin shallow.but if you have to ask people ont he internet about that then it sounds like you really aren't into him becasue of those scars.

Answer 2

Hey don't worry, no one at all will care.
Everyone has scars somewhere on their body. You're not the only one. If they do care why on earth would you want to be with someone like that? Someone who does not care for you at all, and is probably basically trying to have sex with you because you're pretty.

Even if half your face was scarred terribly a guy (most guys) will still love you, guys get a lot of bad press, but they're not like that really, they look at personality too and it has more of an impact than beauty

so if you're already good-looking, why are you even asking such a question? Have confidence in your looks, otherwise you could end up losing a guy not for the scars but for your insecurity!

Answer 3

If five little raised acne scars on each shoulder bothers you I feel sorry for you. Some people have tiny scars on the outside; others have huge scars on the inside but look ok on the outside. Life can be tough; nobody leaves this planet unscathed. How perfect are YOU, inside and out?

Answer 4

I have a 12 inch scar from an op last year and thankfully nobody has ever been put off by it, I also have acne scars on my back but my hair is long so nobody sees. It doesn't make any difference, if you are a genuine loving person you will be loved back x

Answer 5

On the shoulder? Arghh who cares. I have a beautiful girlfriend and half my face has scar tissue all over it. And I fart all the time.

No. Seriously, why would that matter, when you like someone you like all of them and in time love the little things you think are horrible.
And if you are pretty then who would think any different from a few scars??

Answer 6

I don't think it's easy to decide, consciously, what will and what won't affect you, so it seems futile to berate someone for worrying that scars might affect someone's first impression. However, a first impression is, after all, just that and, personally, i think lasting impressions are more powerful than first impressions. Lasting impressions are made by more than acne scars and if they are just a few acne scars on your shoulders then no-one is likely to notice them that much anyway.

Answer 7

l wouldn't because you are supposed to look beyond their little nuances and see the beauty of the inner soul/being, this is the true person they are simply wrapped up (like a gift). You wouldn't judge a gift on the wrapping paper would you?

Answer 8

No. Spots ,scars or disfigurement, what matters is the person you are and your personality.Anyone who cannot see past spots etc.. are shallow and dont deserve to be in your company.

Answer 9

would you out instead with somebody who is not good looking but without acne/scars, or let's who say has the most beautiful skin?

The point really is you go out with somebody not just because that somebody is good looking but because you like them, you enjoy their company, you want to have a good time, they are fun to be with.

Answer 10

Why is that matter, if he likes you? Sometimes, when someone realy and sincerely likes you, and he good looking, that's make that you don't see more aglyer scars.