Ok Ive been on and off with this dude since march. I really love him and I know he loves me too. After everything we have been thru we still find a way to be together. But i really think I messed up this time. We decided to chill out for a min but continue to talk. I seen my ex and we chilled. We ended up sleeping together but we both know it wasnt going anywhere. and we said we wont ever try that again. I didnt tell this guy and he found out on my phone. I left my ex a text saying that was it no more. Now this guy doesnt want nothing to do with me. I really realize what I messed up. How can I get him to trust me and believe me. I dont want to lose him or is it too late.
2006-09-19 09:11:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i dont know, but for me when a woman messes up she messes up. to many head games or wavering on what she wants and does not want. got to tired of hearing excuses and hearing poor me poor me. I told her to grow up and call me if she feels like when she puts herself together.
usually its only happen 3 times to me and i am a ver forgiving person but i usually keep the woman far and away physicaly and emotionaly from my heart and soul.
and tell her you should not have played the game
2006-09-19 09:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by concrete water 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that u deserve someone who will love u 24/7 not on again /off again . Time to move on Let him go if it was meant to be then it will be again if not then u did not waste all ur time and energy waiting for the inevitable. You are human and made a mistake. It happens . Stop chasing this guy and lay low for a while take time to realize what it is u want and u never know u may find a man instead of these lil boys who don't know what they want or how to treat u when they do have u .
2006-09-19 09:17:45 · answer #2 · answered by ~~*Brownie*~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW tough one. Even though the two of you were kinda on a break-the new guy feels as u betrayed him. That if u had really loved him- it wouldnt have taken u just a day or two to sleep with your ex. Its going to be really hard to get him to give u another chance. If he does it will take quite awhile for him to forget it ever happenned. he may be able to forgive but will not forget it. He feels like your relationship with him didnt mean too much to u if u were already hooking back up with youir ex. He is hurt right now and he does have a right to be. Write him a long letter and tell him exactly how u feel- and hopefully he will be able to give u a nother chance if not- now u know not to do that kinda thing next time. Always ask yourself how u would feel if they did it to you before you do something! If it would make u feel like crap- it will make them feel like crap! Would u forgive him if it were the other way around? REALLY?
2006-09-19 09:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it maybe to late.. My GF did a similar thing, although I told her I was over it, I wasnt really, and it ate away at me inside, to a point where she thought we were 100% concrete again, then I told her I couldnt get over it. She cried...alot. It will all end in tears. MAKE A CLEAN BREAK
2006-09-19 09:14:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but you messed up big time . you cheated and you don't deserve him now. If you don't want to lose him then you should of not slept with the other guy. you will never be trusted by him.
2006-09-19 09:16:10 · answer #5 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You screwed up, now you pay the price. Next time, have a brain instead of a little d*** inside you.
2006-09-19 09:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on or you will spend the rest of your life trying to prove yourself to him and he will never trust you again.
next time don't tell if you mess up,better yet don't mess up.
2006-09-19 09:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by freebird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's too late
2006-09-19 09:16:05 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Lasha♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋