ur still young chica. keep doing what u do. of course you're gonna think of him. but u know the best thing to do is make ur life livable without him. if one day he opens his eyes n realizes he does want to be with u, then hopefully You are still single n open to being with him. don't waste your time waiting. especially if you've tried to be mature n express ur feelings. guys mature slower remember. takes em longer to catch up. tell him you haven't given up, but u don't have to actively pursue him anymore either, til he does something (like dating another girl) and then u have no choice but to let him go for good. good luck.n don't worry, cuz there will be plenty of fish in the sea as u get older. what seems so important n raw n intense now is 100 x's more when you're older. hehe. good luck.
2006-09-19 09:14:45
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answered by StonerChick421 2
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It seems to me that the choice was already made. It is an opportunity to learn one of life's lessons, albeit, a bit of a hard one. I have the impression that things were not as perfect as you imagined, else he would still be around, and I also suspect that he is now involved with someone else. On a brighter note, you might ask a mutual friend what his side of the story is... maybe you can find a clue in there somewhere. He has to want to be back with you... I almost hate to say this, but you might have to play hard to get... keep in mind, that 'games' usually end up with someone feeling broken hearted.
2006-09-19 09:17:40
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answered by Anonymous
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If he can't forgive you one bad day/moment then maybe he is doing you a favor by leaving. Sooner or later you were going to disagree about something. If ANY relationship is going to last both parties have to be willing to work with each other to get over it. He's not willing to work with you. I know it hurts now, but there will be other guys. Forget him! Give yourself time. It will get easier and sooner or later another, better guy will come along. In the meantime a little time alone is good for you. Sometimes in life we have to stand alone and it's good to know you can. You'll come out the other end of this whole thing stronger, better off and happier. Good luck!
2006-09-19 09:13:57
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answered by danl747 5
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There could be two things happening here. Either A. He's still mad at you for that situation (or just overall rough spots) and he doesn't want to admit he still has feelings, or, I'm sorry to say dear, he really doesn't like you anymore. From the way you've explained it, it sounds like B to me. I'm terribly sorry! But, besides begging for someone who doesn't like you anymore to take you back, I would go looking for someone who will love you no matter what. If you get back together with this guy, he could be doing it because he feels bad for you. Trust me, a lot of my guy friends have told me this before. Unless he comes running back to you, dont beg for him. I suggest you find someone worth your time and your love! Good luck!
2006-09-19 09:13:38
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm sorry to say this but this relationship doesnt seem to be working. When something this small (like not meeting for lunch) becomes the excuse for the break-up usually there is a bigger underlying reason for it.
It's probably best to move on and forget about him. You deserve better.
2006-09-19 09:12:45
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answered by x_iloveme_x 2
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First of all stop begging him to take you back, you deserve to have guys chasing after you, not the other way around. What's with this guy telling you he barely even loved you??? and you trying to win him back...wake up! He is a selfcentered, uncaring person who is upto no good. Trust me, I know it hurts but, you should move on, maybe if he sees you aren't at his feet he will ask you to get together again, maybe not, either way you end up being happy.
Good luck
2006-09-19 09:14:16
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answered by White 7
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He probably is embarrassed that you called him in front of his friends. So he would look like a "sucker" if he stayed with you.
The only thing you can do is give him his space and and hope
fully he will get over it. But if he doesn't try not to worry about it
to much, you are better off with someone who is a lil bit more
considerate of his GF.
2006-09-19 09:17:17
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answered by Lisa P 2
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Why would he want to stay with someone who is so controlling? You gave him a taste of freedom and he decided he likes it. So you can't get him back by crawling after him like a puppy. You have to move on. The only way you're possibly going to be desirable to him again is if you don't need him and don't give a ****.
2006-09-19 09:14:38
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answered by rollo_tomassi423 6
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one of the best solutions i can suggest is give it a little time... hopefully he'll get over it and be more willing to talk to you. it doesn't sound like what happened is that terrible of a thing so maybe something else is going on. just give it a little time. Good luck!
2006-09-19 09:12:45
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answered by Lax Angel 3
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Sounds like he was planning to break up with you and used that lunch as a ruse.
later.
oh yeah do go to college find someone better.
2006-09-19 09:12:10
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answered by Anonymous
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