I am divorced but feel like I will never love anyone in the way I loved my husband.
2006-09-19 09:09:10 · 8 answers · asked by Kathie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no you can adapt to other people
2006-09-19 09:10:33 · answer #1 · answered by toobdoob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to the Greeks, originally humans were combined of 4 arms, 4 legs, and a single head made of 2 faces, but Zeus feared their power and split them all in half, condemning them to spending their lives searching for the other half to complete them.
Even then there was a belief that for everyone there only was a certain person that could be a perfect match...I believe that in certain stages of your life, depending on your growth and maturity you will be interested in different kinds of people, and that sometimes you find one person with whom you can grow and look in the same direction, but sometimes you think you have it right and you don't.
The heart heals, just give yours a chance, learn from your experience and be willing to expand your horizons.
Your ex will always be a part of you because there are things you learned about life and yourself thanks to him, things didn't work out for a reason, now is your time to heal and mourn over this loss.
I'm sure you will be on your feet again, just give yourself a chance.
2006-09-19 16:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by White 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry to hear that your marriage has ended. i don't know how many loves each of us have in life, but i cannot believe that your love would be so tied to a single person you can no longer share your life with. that is too depressing.
we love because we must. you will love again if you can, there are no rules for steering hearts together or apart. it is something you can choose, though it will still be hard. but i cannot believe that something so necessary as love can be destroyed by one partner for both. you must find another person to pin it to... they are out there if you look.
2006-09-19 16:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by uncle osbert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry a friend of mine always break up and feels this way but after she meets a new guy she feels like having a true love once again until she breaks up again..
i would say that it depends on our way of thinking and each person's character
2006-09-19 16:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by Depy greece!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I think we have mupltiple soulmates and we just need to find one of them. If you and him aren't getting back together, I'm sure you'll find another. Things always get better.
2006-09-19 16:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by wendydahhling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think we have many loves throughout our lives - we're with different people at different times for different reasons.
2006-09-19 16:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the movie 'Shopgirl' and listen to what is said at the end of the movie...that will answer your question. To answer your question: I surely don't.
2006-09-19 16:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by Richie K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is only one.
Let me know when you find him...Mine is probably with him drinking together at the bar.
2006-09-19 16:12:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋