am I too concerned about this matter?
2006-09-19 09:02:03 · 9 answers · asked by white rose 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i must add here that i come from a very traditional spanish family they believe that getting pregnant before marriage is a sort of disloyalty to the family...so this is my big concern!
2006-09-19 09:20:06 · update #1
If you worry about getting pregnant using a condom then I suggest birth control pills. However, condoms are like 99% effective against pregnancy. So, don't worry too much.
2006-09-19 09:07:07 · answer #1 · answered by Coco 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this may be an off-the-wall, outdated idea? But here it goes. If you are concerned, worried or scared to get pregnant? It probably means you're not ready for it yet. And if that's the case...I know I'm out in left-field here now a days, how about not having sex? If you are not prepared to take on the responsibility of motherhood, why put yourself in the position that might get you there? Just a thought.
2006-09-19 16:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by Drewood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What good is worrying going to do? Either you are pregnant or you're not. Worrying will probably not affect your chances of being pregnant. You are just going to have to wait a little bit and find out. Unless it was just last night you are talking about. Then there is still time for the morning after pill.
2006-09-19 16:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by rollo_tomassi423 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are too concerned with getting pregnant (THIS IS A GOOD THING) If you are not ready, and can not accept the chance that you might get pregnant, you may consider holding off sex, or get on birth control, and still use condoms.. the only 100% surefire way not to get pregnant is to not have sex.
2006-09-19 16:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Also use a contraceptive foam, when the morning after pill comes out make sure you have a pack available just in case.
There are also foam inserts.
Condom and foam is the best
2006-09-19 16:05:24 · answer #5 · answered by god knows and sees else Yahoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you aren't ready for parenthood, most girls worry about it. I would also go on the pill. Two methods is better than one. It will ease your mind.
2006-09-19 16:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be fine i would just calm down and take a breather. it will all be ok and if you do freak out it can cause you not to have a period
2006-09-19 16:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you and all of the other little girls like you is Wait until you are married !!!!!!
2006-09-19 16:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Your parents scared you a little too much.
2006-09-19 16:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋