i have been working for a company for 2 yrs now and just resently my husband got hire at the same store that i just transfered to as one of his bosses. but ... we work seperate hours. and the boss that he works with (we were really good friends?) i think that she is trying to or is doing somthing with my man! i cant prove any of the feelings that i feel but i know that i feel somthing is not right!!!! my feelings are usually right!!! its getting harder and harder to keep my mouth shut!!! what CAN i do?
2006-09-19 08:53:41 · 9 answers · asked by elmirah33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd investigate a bit, but don't kill yourself trying to nail him. Cheaters are easy to catch when you're looking for it, but if you look too much, you can make a cheater out of anyone, so be careful
2006-09-19 08:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by okiedokey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly is she trying to do with your man? Is she just talking to him or flirting with him? Before u accuse anyone of anything, the best thing to do is to back your suspicions up with solid proof as u don't want this to backfire on u, should it turn out to be nothing at all.
When u go home, speak to your man about your concerns and let him know that u feel something is not right. U are in an awkward position with your husband being in the same company so use your judgement wisely as u don't want your dirty laundry aired out should anything happen.
2006-09-19 16:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come right out and ask your husband. If you don't have a history of being jealous then he would understand your gut feeling. He may not be aware of what the other co-worker is into. Then resolve it from there.
2006-09-19 16:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by lady e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A women's intuition is usually right especially when it comes to her man! I would ask, don't accuse, your husband if there has been any flirting or something heavier between them. We can also tell when they're lying so watch his facial expressions!
2006-09-19 16:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by Pildi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your intuition is at work girl. talk to him about it. thats a little suspicious. try to get the same hours. or try to get him to get the same hours.
2006-09-19 16:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop her from flirting with him. The best thing you can do is just trust him.
2006-09-19 15:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to both of them and ask them what's going on.
2006-09-19 16:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why keep your mouth shut, if you want to know something ask....
2006-09-19 15:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gstout
2006-09-19 17:46:47 · answer #9 · answered by blackbutton100 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋