a boy kissed my daughter who just turned 15 on the neck? how serious should they be? should i let that happen?
2006-09-19 08:53:19 · 46 answers · asked by the5500 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You are leaving out the most important detail. How old is the boy? If he is 14-16, then it isn't something you need to worry about.
2006-09-19 08:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by Biskit 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
And...? She IS 15!
Make sure she knows where babies come from and make sure she's on birth control even if she says she isn't or wouldn't do anything. A friend of mine daughter said the same thing. Her son is going to turn 4 in March.
Make sure she carries a condom with her and tell her if she is going to do anything ever, to make sure the guy puts it on or the deal's off no matter what else he says. Having unprotected sex can not only get girls pregnant, but kill them. It can also give diseases that may not kill but could make sure she never has a child even when she and her husband are ready.
Be happy she's telling you these things. Tell her how you feel about it and why, but make sure she has the right precautions in place. The "kiss on the neck" may never be anything but a "kiss on the neck" but better to be safe then a grandmother unexpectedly and far too soon!
2006-09-19 09:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah!!! Perfectly normal... I mean you sound maybe even a little too protective to even ask such a thing... be proud, most 15 year olds are not JUST kissing if you know what I mean. I know (Im 14)!!! But you sound like you care, and that is REALLY hard to find in soo many families now. But if it helps, think of it this way, atleast it wasn't a girl kissing your daughter! I bet you have a great daughter, don't worry about it. GOOD LUCK WITH THE NEXT THREE YEAHRS!!
2006-09-19 08:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, kids are getting into that sort of thing sooner and sooner. I'm 47, and I remember when I was 14 years old. I had a boyfriend and he and I would find the darkest corner any time we could and kiss forever....but it never went much farther than that. Course I was raised that I had better NOT do anything else LOL. I think as long as your daughter knows about pregnancy and such things, she should know when to call it quits with him. I hope she's sensible.
2006-09-19 08:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, think back to when you were 16. What would you have done regardless of how your parents felt about it. You should be open with your daughter and express your concerns without being accusational. Let her know that you are there for her to talk to. Just remember, if you try to stop her, she'll do it anyway but will be afraid to come to you if she has a problem.
2006-09-19 09:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by JENNIFER B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to let her know about sex and tell her that it is fine to talk to you about it. Make a deal with her to let you know if she is thinking about having sex with this boy and be nice about it don't get upset because the minute you tell her she can't see him she will sneek and you will be a grandma or pa in 9 months. I know i was pregnant at 15 and i am 49 now and that is what i told my daughter. Hope this helps you out hun........Flo
2006-09-19 08:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my sons backpack I found some very scary letters back and forth between friends and he about the same age. I wouldn't get to worried but I wold make sure she knows that she is able to talk to you and that she is where you know what is going on. Maybe allow them to hang out at the house rather then at the mall or park. Hope this help and best of luck
2006-09-19 08:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by upnorth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had my first tongue kiss at 12. Just let her be. As long a you instill the right qualities in her, she will be a good girl and resist any peer pressure. Talk to the boys mom and ask if she ok with it and how she feels. get to know the boy so you can judge his character and decide if you want her around him
2006-09-19 08:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Shes 15... most girls that age are experimenting and being a bit promiscuous. If you do not want that behavior to occur and feel she is too young, talk to her about it. Find out her views on it. If you strictly forbid it, she'll sneak around and do it behind your back. So find out from her her limits and such and go from there. If its just kissing, then let them kiss.
2006-09-19 08:55:57 · answer #9 · answered by camoprincess32 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid at 15 it's more her choice than yours, I think the best you can do is talk to her (and listen) about it. You can tell her if you feel uncomfortable about it but without explicitily forbiding that kind of behavior. Teenagers are not easy to deal with... Good luck!
2006-09-19 09:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by johannsinuhe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋