Why is it so hard for a bi-sexual male to have a relationship with a woman?

Question

Hi you all... this is a questions for people in their 30s and up.

I have had relationships with men for the last couple of years and I have been faitful to them.
But as any other straight marriage the communication always fails.
I want to meet a nice girl to marry and possible have a relationship with.

The problem that I am encountering now is that the women I find attractive or interesting (straight) firs tell "I am not into that" or "YOU ARE BISEXSUAL!!!" Like it is the worst defect a person can have.

I have respected people for a while but when it comes to me, poeple does not respect me.

I know it is hard for someone to trust when they have been in different relationships and even harder when a guy like me says is bisexual.

I have never judged anyone or anything for anything but the world is not easy at times.

My thinking now is just to look for bisexual women though I feel I am very ignorant when it comes to dating women I will feel more secure that a woman will understand or has the same prefference for the same sex.

Life is short but it is hard at times to be happy or make someone else happy.

If anyone knows where I could find my a serious girl that thinks her life has to settle or change for a good future, let me know.

A relationship is not just about sex it is about the friendship, the companionship and the living of two people that share a common interest be content!

Answer 1

Wow,

Sucks, but face it...Bisexuality is great when someone looking for a romp in the sack, but for a long term thing, most straight people find it a huge turn off.......yes, guys don't normally go for a bi woman for a long term relationship, but will try to bed her as quick as possible. Straight women, find bisexual guys to be freaks more often than not....sucks, but happens.....If you intend to do the long term thing, ya need to not tell her you are bi untill later. Let her get to know you...then bring it up.....If the chemistry is there, it won't matter as long as you have laid the ground work to let her know you will be faithful. AIDS is out there, and folks are getting moe and more afraid....

Good luck

Answer 2

If it is the man who has problems finding his way towards a woman, then the "bi" is in question, but if the woman is finding it hard to accept a gay guy who is "bi", then she is concerned for the reproductive future--is he going to be here to help raise our children or not? If he's off chasing some other man, the thoughts of which really weird-out a lot of women, then that is not good fathering material.

No the world is not easy at times, but you are standing on one branch that was pretty shaky to begin with, wondering why you are not having much luck getting a girl bird to come down and make a nest with you. Success is still possible, but you are going to have to sing your song to a lot of birdies before one flies your way on purpose. Sorry. If you want a girl, like fishing, you've got to have and offer what a girl needs and wants.

Answer 3

Unfortunately, all bisexuals - irrespective of whether they are male or female have to put up with this. Its always a fear when dating someone you like that telling them you're bi may mean bye bye.

I'm a 30 year old bisexual male and I'm contemplating dating females, as I'm finding males less attractive.

The following link is a very good article advising bisexuals on how to approach the dating scene.

Answer 4

I'd love to have a bi guy as a boyfriend if i could watch him as i have seen 2 bi guys have fun with each other before and it is great to watch, no different than guys finding 2 women a turn on.

But i guess thats what i cant figure out ... why is it ok for guys to think watching 2 women have fun with each other a turn on BUT its not ok for 2 guys to have fun ?