i am a very shy female and my fiance is even more shy and i always think of how it will be on our wedding night when we have sex? we never talk about it but you can tell in his eyes that his eager to do it and cant wait for it but how would we react?
2006-09-19 08:00:04 · 7 answers · asked by lovely86 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Being shy, and being unable to discuss sex at all are different. Here is basic info that you will need, presented in a tasteful manner:
http://www.nvsh.nl/Website_Engels/Texts/Sexual_Information/Basics/Skills_1.htm
If you cannot discuss it, get counselling with your pastor or couples counselling, together, not separately.
Marrage will not magically make this easier!! There is nothing wrong with discussing sex with your fiancee, at all, and it is time to break the ice!!
2006-09-19 08:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously-JUST ASK HIM! Mine was shy and very,very unconfident when it came to sex. At the movies before the previews started I finally could not stand it any more so I leaned over and whispered in his ear "can I make love to you?". He got a really surprized look on his face and (of course) said yes. We've been toghter for 5 years this 23rd. If he is eager to get it on then he'll love the fact that you asked. It will be even more spicy for him to that you have the "little naughty girl" thing going.
2006-09-19 15:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Make it fun, strip for him, with the music and all. You both are shy but you need to let loose in the bedroom.
2006-09-19 15:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by dmgoldsbo7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same concepts apply!
2006-09-19 15:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by RACQUEL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married a shy guy, I just "attacked him" he loved it, and guess what, he's not shy anymore!!!
2006-09-19 15:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by tonibananas72 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Talk it through it discover play and have fun...
2006-09-19 15:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by jentennisgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will be great have fun. Good luck. enjoy.
2006-09-19 15:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by sugerglaze28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋