My husband and I have never been to a strip club before. We have been talking about it and are thinking of going to one. Do you think it is a bad idea or not?
2006-09-19 07:43:49 · 28 answers · asked by hazelshine 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go for it..Its no differant then watching a porn together. Its great he would like you to go w/him. If he wanted to go behind your back he wouldnt be asking you to go in the first place. Its kinking and will stimulate your sex life. When you walk in alot of guys will be watching you wondering if you'll be the next to get on stage. Maybe this possibility should be mentioned to your husband before going first. If hes the jealous type it might not be advisable.
2006-09-19 07:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think that if you both want to go, you should go for it! :) If it's something that you both want to do together, I think that's MUCH better than either of you checking out the club alone! In my opinion, doing spontaneous, sexy things like this is part of what keeps the spice in a happy marriage! If either of you has any reservations about the strip club, however, make sure that you talk about them together before you go.
Have fun! ;)
2006-09-19 07:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by wyldberry880 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I go to strip clubs about twice a year, just because. it always seems to add a little spice to the evening, and we both kinda get off knowing we are doing something out of the norm. Also it is like your going to be sleeping with these girls ur just watching, honestly I think my wife enjoys it more than I do, at least she always runs out of money before me.
2006-09-19 09:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by erker34 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is completly acceptable, as long as both parties are willing participants. My husband and I go to the strip club from time to time, and we both have a greater appreciation for it. I used to be the type that would be jealous and furious with him for going, until one night he managed to talk me into going. It is very stimulating sexually.
2006-09-19 07:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by logicals 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I love going to strip clubs with my husband. Occassionally, we'll bring a friend of mine along with us. FUN!
2006-09-19 12:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by tallandready2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with out, I think it is a great way for the both of you to experience it lots better than doing it behind each others back. More power to ya.
2006-09-19 09:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by bdntitest 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as the both of you go willingly I dont see the problem on going to a stip club.
2006-09-19 08:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have gone a couple times. It was fun and exciting for both of us. Get spontaneous, do something new. If you don't like it don't go back.
2006-09-19 07:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by Peyton 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO....Why do u guys wanna go to a strip club? What benifits u 2 expect to achieve?
2006-09-19 07:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by Miss-Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Depends on your confidence in yourself and each other.
Some couples go to clubs to get rev'd, then go home to explore.
2006-09-19 07:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋