my girlfriend said she wants to be friends because then we wouldn't be so shy but she still loved me. how do i get her back?
2006-09-19 07:22:12 · 16 answers · asked by Kirby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
give her space don't keep callin her that is the worst thing u can do. go on with your life don't let her think she can click her fingers and u will come runnin. Delete her number so u will not b tempted.
if she wants back with u she will let u know. I will hard but i've been there don't look weak it's a big turn off. good luck
2006-09-19 07:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she wasn't looking for a long-term relationship, just a bit of fun that didn't mean much.
Tell her to tell you straight why she just wants to be friends, tell her whatever it is you can handle it, maybe there is a reason that you could work out and get her back from there, or maybe she didn't have the same intentions as you when entering into the relationship.
She hasn't given you a very good answer for breaking up with you. I'm not saying you have to forget her, but you should find out from her why it didn't work and then make changes within yourself to allow it to work, but if as I said she wasn't interested in a full relationship and just wanted something for a while, then you would have to work a lot harder to try and show her that what she really wants is you.
Don't give up and don't give in.
2006-09-19 14:33:55 · answer #2 · answered by lakmii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy? well after sometime u come out of your shell + u aint shy anymore all she needed to do was stick in at it....maybe she wasnt in to a longterm relationship just abit of fun....her excuse was s**t.....my appologies if she is telling the truth, but i think u + her need to speak bigtime....tell her u just want the truth + it isnt going to affect your friendship what she says, then that way u will get the truth out of her.
good luck hunny!
x.niks.x
2006-09-20 08:48:36 · answer #3 · answered by lil niks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously spent a long time thinking of an excuse that wouldn't hurt your feeings! I must say, she could have done better! Anyway, give up - it's obviously over!
2006-09-19 14:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by doodlenatty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her that your not bothered and act like you don't need her. show her that your busy and that you are getting on with your life. she obviously wants you to run after her but when she notices that you ain't she'll come running after you. if she does really love you like she sez she'll come back for sure.and if you both love each other whats there to be shy about,.
gud luck mate xx
2006-09-19 14:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy about what? Clearly she's embarassed with your relationship. She dumps you and then patronizes you by saying she still loved you.
There are other girls. Exercise your options.
2006-09-19 14:26:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt bother if i was you if she loved you she wouldnt have finished you and if you really loved each other then you wouldnt be so shy around each other just move on
2006-09-19 14:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by REBEKAH O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must lure her back with false promises, and then, when her back is turned, throw the net over her. you must not let it escape this time
2006-09-20 12:50:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want her back? Move on. Stop being a wanker
2006-09-19 14:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry,she come back,"the person who leaves always is the first to come back",so just enjoy yourself and wait for her to squirm herself back to you...
2006-09-19 15:58:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋