My ex is 35, one night she comes over, it's about 9:30PM and she looks hideous, the vein in her neck is pulsing visibly like she was speeding, she complained of intense headache, she looked confused, miixed up and her face was pale like a ghost. She is always scratching at her nose and face and all the sudden she like developed acne. At night she grinds her teeth.....this is all like new stuff in the last 3 months. She is like this almost every sunday....is this a gang bang drug? is she on drugs? I am worried about her but since we are no more what the hell can I say. They aren't listening when you aren't with them sexually...and if speed and sex is what she wants, what can you say?
2006-09-19 06:49:15 · 10 answers · asked by DigitDugout 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I have heard alot of people outside this site say the same thing, meth....and this is a lot of good advice....I do care....she broke up with me so I don't really think she turned to drugs because I dumped her, she has started hanging out with a younger guy or guys and I guess they make her feel younger, and I have heard that meth and sex is like a 4 hour sexathon. Even though she probably would never believe she is being used, she still is 35, and she is not unattractive....It would be one thing if she left me for someone younger and there was no drug use, but myself and her had some stellar sex without any enhancements or help....just can't compete with the meth sex thing and the more I write the more like a waste of time she was
2006-09-19 07:12:27 · update #1
Your ex is exhibiting classic symptons to meth abuse. She could also be mixing it with cocaine (the new thing) which is definitely bad. You need to call a treatment center and some of her family/friends and get her together and stage an intervention. Sure she might hate you for it but you would be trying to save her life and if she accepts the help in the end she'll be grateful!
2006-09-19 06:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by Dhara 6 · 17⤊ 0⤋
All the things you describe sounds like she's on drugs! You can't do much but take her into rehab only if she is willing to. Basically when someone is on drugs, it's not them speaking anymore, it's the drugs!
2006-09-19 06:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by xportuguesax 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
So why is your EX coming over in the first place?
You need to drop her completely, just like the bad habit she has become. Yes, I would say she is on drugs, but you are correct. She is your EX and there is nothing you can do or say--except "Bye."
2006-09-19 06:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
Sounds like she is on drugs!!! You want to try an intervention or something. You are going to have to find out if she is actually on drugs first. Good luck to you both.
2006-09-19 06:54:47 · answer #4 · answered by drubaby32698 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like she is using Meth.
2006-09-19 06:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by butterflyaht1 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Show her the door before she gets you into trouble by having the police find drugs in your car or house.
2006-09-19 06:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
i think she needs your love and care you care for her too isnt it?she is feeling insecure since she became your ex girl friend.and in frustration took over to drugs
2006-09-19 07:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by Indra P 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
who cares?is she not an ex for a reason?
2006-09-19 06:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
She could be addicted to painkillers...
2006-09-19 06:53:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
the operative word is 'ex'........move on.
2006-09-21 06:18:51 · answer #10 · answered by jloertscher 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋