My boyfriend wont go down on me at all because he says it isn't fair. I go down on him every single day (sometimes more than once) but I don't swallow because I basically can't. I gag and throw up everytime I swallow his load and it's just an awful experience for me. He says that because I refuse to swallow him it's unfair for him to go down on me at all because he hates the taste of my *** and it hurts his tongue. Yet he still expects me to go down on him everyday and get upset when I wont. Is this fair?
2006-09-19 06:32:47 · 45 answers · asked by Sara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No it isn't fair... As far as his not liking your taste assuming you have good hygeine habits there should be little to no smell or taste. You can always offer to shower before hand if it is still a problem.
As for his tasting bad tell him to add more fruit to his diet especially pinapple it makes the taste of his fluids very sweet. You too can add more fruit to your diet and produce similar results.
Try both eating more fruit/pineapple for a couple of weeks then shower together soaping each other up and then try a 69. It should end up being a win win situation for both of you.
Tell him if he is not willing to sacrifice for you that you are no longer willing to do so for him and that many men don't get any oral sex at all he should thank his lucky stars you are even willing to much less do so without his returning the favor.
2006-09-19 06:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by morrigann_angelus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but no matter what it is, I'm almost positive it doesn't "Hurt his tongue" lol.........even with an open wound on your tongue it's probably not going to hurt him lol. If he were SERIOUSLY trying to be as mutual down to the very minute detail......he would be spitting all the fluids you give to him, after you are all finished................Or even if you dont allow him to climax in your mouth at all......all he would need to do is back off as you climaxed as well and switch to hand stimulation or something to be as similar as how you act. Trying new things takes a lot of communication and you really have to be in a comfort zone together.........and him Refusing all together is complete B.S. He's not helping the situation and by almost "forcing" as what I see it as..........it's never going to get any better for either of you. I'd go for getting a new boyfriend if I were you.........or at least sit him down and have a discussion on what each of you can do to help the matter.
2006-09-19 06:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not fair. But he will "expect" you to do so for as long as you do it. The world is not a fair place, you know. Either accept that he doesn't like going down on you, or find a guy who will, there are PLENTY of them out there.
2006-09-19 06:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not fair and maybe you should be with another man that will...If your current b/f is like this over petty things how is he going to handle the bigger things......Hun its not worth it....You should stop going down on him....then that will be fair. He is giving you every excuse as to why he wont but expect you to give him some.
2006-09-19 06:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by Toya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a self-centered whiny *** b itch. It hurts his tongue? What a loser, get rid of him. I would be more than happy if a girlfriend went down on me everyday, even if she didn't swallow. And I would definitely return the favor.
2006-09-19 06:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by Stranger in a Strangeland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not fair. I would stop doing it period. Since you do it to him and want the same thing in return then he should and since he doesn't I don't care how mad he gets I would stop doing it. He's just giving you excuses so he doesn't have to and your giving in to him if your doing it for him everyday. You need to stop giving in and stand by what you feel. If thats all that matters to him then I would kick his a** to the curb and find a new man. There's a ton of men who would do it back to you and some don't care if you do it to them or not. You need to be pleased just as much as he does.
2006-09-19 06:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by Heather A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SELFISH AS..... Dump him and fast!! He does not give a da.. about you at all!!
Now here is what you tell him right before u dump the guy.
My next bf will go down on me for hours per day and in return I will put my tongue on his peni$ while he cu.. but not for you!!
Dump him And don't look back!! He is not worth even kissing!!
Oh, and tell him I said so!!
2006-09-19 06:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh h*** NO! Its not fair, and he is full of excuses.
I would not go down on him, and make a stand for yourself. If that don't work. Id dump him. He sounds like an @ss!
2006-09-19 06:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not fair. If he expects you to go down on him then he should go down on you. And that is bullshit that it hurts his tongue. And You probably taste mighty fine. I'll help you out there hon..
2006-09-19 06:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fair has nothing to do with it. if you are not comfortable performing oral sex, then dont. it is unreasonable for either of you to expect the other to do anything that makes one uncomfortable. love is a giving thing, not a taking thing. neither of you should do anything you dont want to do.
2006-09-19 06:38:44 · answer #10 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋