he only want sex. from me
2006-09-19 06:12:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are pregnant, so your first concern is the health of your child. You need to not stress out, because this will raise your blood pressure and could harm your baby.
Next, get on Medicaid if you don't have insurance. Food stamps, WIC, and anything else to help a single mama out.
Then, when the loser-boy calls you, tell him he has done enough, that you will no longer be his booty call, because you are busy, tending for his child. Tell him he can be there for the baby, or stay away from you so someone else can be.
After the baby is born, take him for all he worth. And don't feel bad about it. If he is old enough to have sex, he better be old enough to be a man about the consequences. And since it took two people to make the child, he better be helping you raise it- either by being there or paying your bills.
Good luck, and congratulations on the baby... Even if you are worried now, just know that as soon as you see that tiny little face staring at you, it will all be worth it!!!
2006-09-19 06:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Butterfly ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And that's what he got and because you didn't use protection you are about to have a child. What you are going through has happened to thousands of gals so you are not the first.
I can guess you would like him back but that is a wrong move-you both would be miserable in a very short while which is NOT good for the baby either.
My suggestion is to let him know, in a very clever way, that his future pay checks will be partly devoted to child support. You both had your fun and now both will rear child in the best possible way.
2006-09-19 06:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him who cares if he is with somebody else he helped create that live make him help during and after the baby is here. it is not far that a woman has to be the only one in the child's life, the man almost always runs out because they can't handle the responability of a baby then don't have sex
2006-09-19 06:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by melanie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop giving him sex... If you know he just want you as his booty call why do you let him take this advantage of you? Shouldn't you stop letting him use your body as a get off? And pregnant tell him that you are carrying his child... He should be responsible for the other half...After all you need two person to have sex...
2006-09-19 06:36:30 · answer #4 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your pregnant by him, its not really a good idea to screw his life up when he is happy now. It was both of you guys choice to have sex to point of where you would get inpregnanted so its really up to you. You can either just have the baby and have visitations for the father or let the father just come by and see his child because it is his child or you can make a choice not to have it but that is dangerous also and it makes your body more at risk to having a miscarriage.
2006-09-19 06:17:30 · answer #5 · answered by kjoh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you knew that he only wanted sex from you then you both should have taken responsibility to protect yourselves. Walk up to him and give him the papers from the doctor that say you are pregnant. Stop giving him sex, he needs to get a job now!
2006-09-19 06:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by kimpierce76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP having sex with him, for starters. START keeping your legs closed, VALUE yourself and your body more..... REALIZE that your child, and what's right for your child, is more important than any petty, self serving feelings you might have or will have. DON'T "punish" him by keeping his child from him, if he makes an effort to see and be responsible for his child, work with him. (If he genuinly makes no attempt and flat out says he doesn't want his child, then take him for all he's got... i.e. child support) DON'T blame the girl he's with for the two of you not working out. She has nothing to do with it. DON'T wait around trying to "get back with him". He's already told you where he stands with you, find someone out there who is right for you. And last but not least.... BE the best mom you can be..... good luck
2006-09-19 06:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything but get child support if he isn't going to be in the child's life. He got what he wanted and is now gone to do the same to somebody else. I wish you the best with your child and congratulations.
2006-09-19 06:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How nice that he can have sex with the current girlfriend and the ex. So is he like massively hot? Nice? Obviously not! Rich? Is he stepping up to his responsibility with your pregnancy or just stepping up to the bed? Wake up and move on.
2006-09-19 06:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by saucylatina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it's hard but you got to move on. Let him know of your pregnancy and if he want's to be part of your baby life let him, but if doesn't then i really don't know what to tell you, but move on be resonsable for that baby that it's not his fault. And like you said he was only with you because of sex and if you new he was using you for sex than you should of been on birth control.
2006-09-19 06:22:09 · answer #10 · answered by lachina74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋