Why is it that men ...straight men...seem to think that womyn are impressed with the length and girth of their "members"??
Do they actually think that we will swoon in delight?
Jump up and down with excitement?
Do they actually think that after being informed that a man has "9 inches" we will abandon our instincts are run panting after him??
Where does this come from???
2006-09-19 06:05:55 · 18 answers · asked by bopddbop 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Because men still have primitive ways and feel it's best to populate the world with his heirs as much as possible, and how do they do that? By sleeping with as many women as possible. What shows signs of fertility? Large genetalia. I really think this is one of the most primitive/animalistic things that humans STILL believe in. If you're trying to "spread your seed" what is more likely to reach that "spot"? A large penis or a small one? Men also seem to think that women are attracted to a large penis, and since men want to "spread their seed" as much as possible, men naturally want to have the largest genetalia. It's "alpha male" syndrome. Men want to be the best and most powerful and most revered. But, from the women's perspective, as they say "It's not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean"...what good does it do to HAVE it if you don't know how to USE it?
2006-09-19 07:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to consider the source. Many men feel superior (or inferior) due to the size of their genitalia. They believe this translates to women, which it does not. But men have no understanding of this, and they are not going to learn it soon. This can be handled on a personal basis only, as in " Only a Size Queen would care about your length, and he is standing over there..go impress him!" I think that would shut a guy like this up for some time!
2006-09-19 06:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think men are just intrigued with there units, I'm surprised that there aren't more gay(or) goy men out there... I think that men automatically think if they stick it in the woman she gets this whole sensation like the man is feeling... Which in most cases is not correct at all... Most women need much more than just penetration alone... Not to mention them finishing when your not quit there yet.... Or never ending when it just not doing anything for you.
Its kind of like when the guys whistle at you when your walking by, What do they think we are going to do? Run over there and show them our tit's???
2006-09-19 06:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by mylife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think it's something to do with evolving from apes.
In the days before I saw the light and went to bat for the other side I used to "have relations" with men.
And honestly, I found no difference between a long shlong and a wee pee-pee.
The intimacy was far more important - the actual act was just one part of it, for me.
2006-09-19 06:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, it rates right up there with guys that yell out car windows to "holla" at a woman, has that actually worked with any woman other than a hooker? Ah well. We all have our little bit of foolishness that we indulge in, like intentionally misspelling woman as "womyn".
2006-09-19 06:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're asking about straight men in a gay group, hon.... don't expect too many straight answers.
I'm 8.5" and I'm an introverted man. I don't feel more proud of what I have more than the next guy. Then again, I'm not shallow and I look at more than what the physical aspects of someone are.
2006-09-19 06:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by Vancouver-snuggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea but I know I've had the same problem when it comes to guys and I just ignore them. I don't know why they even try because it's not like lesbians can't substitute for that "9 incher." Hell, we could go buy a 12 incher if we wanted!
2006-09-19 08:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A myth to make some men feel better about themselves. I've never had to use size (or lack thereof) to get a woman. In fact, any man that would show his "member" to a woman in order to get her interest is what I would call a flasher.
2006-09-19 06:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by Stumpy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are very visually oriented. So bigger means better to the and leaves some men with inferiority problems.
Tammi Dee
2006-09-19 06:18:37 · answer #9 · answered by tammidee10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but a big penis scars me to death. I want pleasure not pain. I guess there are some women who really like a long penis. I prefer width to length any day. Most of all I'd prefer no penis at all!!! LOL
2006-09-19 07:32:43 · answer #10 · answered by Q~T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋