hi i am 26 male from india and divorce.. i am in serious relationship with an american woman on internet from last 2 years.. first one year of our relation she didnt know i was married but when she know about it i told her that me and my wife is not happy with this marriage and we both wants divorce. she bitched alot on me but still she saying she loves me then and when i were in divorce procedure she met another man on net and start talking cybersex and phonesex with him.she starts ignoring me on net and she allways told me lies and keep cheating me. she keep telling me she loves me but all this time she was doing phonesex and cybersex with him and her some mails for him showed me she have feelings for him. i really love her from deep inside of my heart my divorce is over from last 4 months but she is cheating me from last 10 months. i fight with her on this, i begged her to leave him.. i requested her to stop all this sh**. but she is not stoping all this, what should i do?
2006-09-19 06:05:47 · 19 answers · asked by love p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ur not living with this woman, internet relationships r never serious,
2006-09-19 06:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there. Divource is not the option in the 1st place and while u still have your wife in the 1st place, it is not right to go for another woman. this is bringing hurt to both women. killing another or oneself is a mortal sin. thus cool down, reflect and move on. don't let hatred bore u down. We as men should be faithful to our wife in the 1st place and not flirt over the net. this is something i would not condone with no doubt i am in deep sympathy with what u are going through now. what the american lady did is another story where she has to be responsible for her own act. it is not right for u to put the entire blame on her. u really need to reflect what is true love and faithfulness. Think, think and think over again.
2006-09-19 13:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to just let it go ..and move forward and find u a girl that will respect and love u ..Internet love .I'm not saying it doesn't happen but i don't think it's the right way to go about it .i mean really u know only what they won't u to know ...especially is ur in 2 different country's.
2006-09-19 13:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKAY........ SOMETIMES THE WAY YOU MEET SOMEONE, IS HOW IT WILL END.
1) YOU WERE WRONG.
YOU WERE MARRIED, ON THE NET, AND GOT A GIRLFRIEND. IF YOUR DIVORCE HAS ONLY BEEN FOR FOUR MONTHS, AND SHE HAS BEEN "CHEATING" FOR TEN, YOU WERE CHEATING FOR TEN TOO.
2) MAYBE SHE IS HURT MORE THAN YOU. YOU DID NOT TELL HER YOU WERE MARRIED UNTIL LATER.
FINAL- IF SHE IS HAVING "CYBERSEX AND PHONE SEX", YOU REALLY DON'T WANT HER ANYWAY. SHE SOUNDS LIKE A "CYBER HOE".
2006-09-19 13:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by *HOT*GHETTO*MESS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First - give up on this doomed cyber-relationship. It is over. You must accept that.
Second - start a relationship where actaully see the other person face to face. To do otherwise is unhealthy and unrealistic
2006-09-19 13:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would find someone else real. Someone you can connect with. If she really loved you back, she would not be doing what she is. You are divorced. Start fresh. Forget her and move on. She is not worth it. Don't you want someone who will reciprocate your feelings? Who will treat you right?
2006-09-19 13:10:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her, if she is not intrested in u then better let her go, also u cant force someone to love u,she did a wrong thing with u but what can u do now , better move on, life is full of oppurtunities u will surely find someone better.good luck.
2006-09-19 13:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by naturelover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no reason you should stay with her. she is just going to keep cheating. if she loved you like she said, she would not have been cheating on you. if i were you, i would not beg her back or anything. find yourself a good woman that will love you and respect you.
2006-09-19 13:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by amandy245 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no its hard but leave her. if she really loved you she wouldn't be cheating. Tell her your nt gonna deal with this crap anymore and find someone worth yor time. And don't beg. Summon up the little dignity u still have and leave.
2006-09-19 13:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by brown sugar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will just have to leave her alone and try to get over it.it seems from what you said she dosnt want you, that she wants him it is not a good idea to be with someone who wants to be with someone else.It is very painful more painful than what you are going through right now.
2006-09-19 13:13:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. I know it's hard. most people don't take Internet relationship's seriously. but I met my husband on the net. I'm sorry that, that happened to you. but the best thing is to move on.
2006-09-19 13:09:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋