Is it okay?

Question

Is it ok for your boyfriend not to call you when he says he will and he does it all the time?

Answer 1

NO ITS NOT OK IF HE DOES IT ALL THE TIME THATS VERY DISRESPECTFUL IF IT IS ONLY ON OCCASION HE MIGHT HAVE GOTTEN BUSY DOING SOMETHING ELSE I WOULDNT SWEAT IT BUT LIKE I TELL EVERYONE IF YOU THINK HES CHEATING OR SOMETHIN LIKE THAT DUMP HIM HE AINT WORTH IT ANYWAY THEN

Answer 2

in that case, tell him not to do that b/c then you'll be expecting a call, and if he doesn't than you get more paranoid. don't be waiting on his call either. i'm sure you are buzy with your own things in life. remember you are not a "call girl". just tell him to call when he has time. try doing the same thing to him too. see if he care. say you'll call but don't call back till late. he shouldn't tell you that all the time then, if he does that all the time. let him know. there's no point in telling someone you'll call, cuz if you call... you'll call ,if you don't then you don't. i don't expect my boyfriend to call every hour. but it would be nice to hear him at least once a day. especially at night you can tell each other how your day was. it's ok to call him instead too. but don't make it a habit.

Answer 3

Look honey Iam a man trust me when I say hes a jerk its not ok for him do that he does it becuase he knows you well put up with it tell him the next time he calls for a date sorry have other plans you should have call me when you said you were do that two or three times then maybe he well get the hint that he needs to call you when he says hes going to if not DUMP THE BUM

Answer 4

i don't think it is ok, coz if he really likes you alot he would hav the respect and consideration to keep his word. if it was a on off coz of work or his busy it's ok and then he calls to explain that's fine, but if happens all the time then well what does that mean? well it could be that he may not b into the relationship as much as you are, but i think u should tak to him about it and tell him how you feel and what he says to that. Goodluck!

Answer 5

No its not okay. He obviously doesn't respect you enough to even call when he says he will. I wonder what happens when he makes a promise? Your b/f is proving to be unreliable and his word is ovbiously not bond. I would keep stressing to him how much it bothers you when he doesn't call when he say he will. The more you express how much it bothers you, the more it might start to sink in and maybe he will want to change. If he really wants to be with you, he would take how you feel into consideration.

Answer 6

Sometimes things get in the way and that is understandable but it seems that this is a routine for him to be inconsiderate of your feelings. It's probably time to find another boyfriend and not just be waiting by the phone like a "holla back girl".

Answer 7

Why would you be ok with that? My 16 year old won't let a boy do that to her and told he EX-boyfriend that. I told her that she should never let anyone disrespect her ESPECIALLY her "boyfriend". He's the one who's supposed to protect you and keep others from disrespecting you!

He's only doing it because you let him. If you put your foot down and keep it down, you'll see a change. Either he'll get it together and treat you right, or he become an even bigger asshole. Then, you know what to do. Good Luck honey, and let me know if we need to kick his ***!

Answer 8

No it is not okay. You don't have to break up with him, just give him a dose of his own medicine. Tell him you will come see him and don't go.
Truth is it will probably end with the two of you breaking up.
It starts like that and then he will stop coming to see you, and then people will tell you that they saw him with another girl and the next thing you know he has a child with a woman and she living in the house with him that sob.
Yep.

Answer 9

his thoughtlessness is probably a condition of his age. dont turn it into a game though. point out to him that he does not keep his word so you wont be waiting by the phone and not to be surprised if you aren't there to take his call if he doesn't call when he says he will.

Answer 10

Try explaining how his misleading you can effect the rest of your relationship, if he cares he'll try to straighten up. It DOES NOT mean he doesn't care, there are any number of reasons why. Try asking him, see what he says in person (no phone calls) and watch his body language and gauge his reaction to your questions.