i've been feeling sick since the day after, im making more trips to the loo.. ive got strange pains.. is this all in my mind? and whats it like being a single parent?
2006-09-19 05:52:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It was only a week ago and its not planned. The father has said he wants nothing to do with me, then is gonna take it off me wen its born. can he do that?
2006-09-19 05:54:21 · update #1
You sound pregnant, but it could all be in your mind. Start off by going for a pregnancy test. Go to your pharmacist or buy a simple straightforward pregnancy test kit. No one on this forum can answer that question for you.
I can see you are already beginning to believe you are pregnant, by referring to the guy you had sex with as the father. He has said he wants nothing to do with you, so it has already started off horribly wrong-I really hope you're not pregnant given these circumstances.
Being a single parent is not an ideal situation. It works well for some, but not for many. It is very difficult for both yourself and the baby without a partner and a father figure and although a lot of people out there might not agree with me, I would say try and avoid complicating your life. I hope you know what I mean!
2006-09-19 06:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by joechuksy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be your imagination cuz you have been thinkin abt it non stop..so the first thing that hits your mind when ever u feel sick is..i mite be pregnant!!but that mite not be the case....
try a home pregnancy test for ur satisfaction...
i have been thru the same situation and thats why telling u not to worry..
and abt being a single parent...sorry abt that sweets cant give u any help o advise in this case...
All i can say is dun worry..the more u worry the more u will feel sick...so just relax n njoy your life :)
2006-09-20 10:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by deej 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a at home test..of course he can take off and never pay a penny. Being a single mom is alot like being a married mom, still raise they kids basically alone. Not real hard. Been there done that.
2006-09-22 21:58:48 · answer #3 · answered by Akida 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its just all in your mind...all though, anytime you have unprotected sex you have a chance of getting pregnant. Its possible. I wouldn't know how it is to be a single parent I have a loving husband that is there for me. I'm sure its not that bad my mom is one. Its more difficult because there is NO father figure but its possible....obviously. Good Luck!
2006-09-19 12:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by CMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider a D&C.or abortion.If you decide to keep him/her,
get a good job with benefits.Get a test.He can only take it if you are"unfit",good luck.
I am a man and I did it.You can too.I`m now a grandfather.
I was a single parent to my daughter,she`s now sneaking up on thirty.I did it before it was "fashionable".
2006-09-19 13:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by Rich B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure if you are pregnant seems a bit soon to say
being a single mum is hard work but very rewarding and as for him going when its born he can do it but if you are pregnant and plan to keep it dump him dont let him give you ultimatums like that
2006-09-19 12:56:29 · answer #6 · answered by mothertiggy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go to the family planning clinc or to your doctor to get a pregnant test if you are pregnant congratulations!! The father of your baby cant take the baby when its born he can take you to court but its up to the court and what you say to the court they will probaly make arrangements for him to see the baby but thats all i think but speak to citezen advice find your local one and speak to them about your sitiouatuion but thats only if your pregnant!!!!!! good luck!!!!from lisa
2006-09-19 12:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by gary1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see your doctor and get a blood test to determine if your pregnant or if it is something else.
As for him taking the child (assuming you are pregnant)...he can't without a custody battle in court first.
2006-09-19 13:04:55 · answer #8 · answered by Lauren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a test, sharpish. It'll either put your mind at rest, or give you time to fit out a nursery.
And no, he can't take your kid off you without a court order etc.
2006-09-19 12:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a pregnancy testing kit do the test and then take things from there, and no he can't take your baby off you good luck
2006-09-21 12:53:47 · answer #10 · answered by bluebell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋