hello, I am inlove with my man and want to express it all the time, but I don't want to go overboard..I have gave him little gifts like chocolates, cards, and I cook for him often, give him massages, pleasure him in bed, stuff like that, but I would really like to express it in a poem or something, lol, I know it might sound dumb, Im no good at poem or anything like that, but I enjoy giving him things, and feel that this would be nice...would it be too overboard? do you guys actually like this stuff?..He seems to like it and gets all tearyeyed when i get sappy but maybe deep down he is getting annoyed..lol..any suggestions greatly appreciated ;)
2006-09-19 05:40:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like he loves it. Only one who can decide this is him. Ask him not the folks in here.
2006-09-19 05:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by wowwhatwasthat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There can never be too much of the right thing, love! The greatest challenge for all of us is that we look at our lover through our experiences and our likes.
There is a wonderful book that helps to explain this concept and goes on to help us figure out how to really speak our love to one another. The book, The Five Love Languages by David Chapman, should be must reading for every couple.
For me, words of affirmation mean far more than gifts and surprises. My wife could spend every dollar that she has on gifts, cards and suprises and I would not be moved in the least. If she says, "man, you make that shirt look good". My day is made.
On the other hand, one my wife's love language is gifts. Because I know what speaks to me, my tendancy is to tell her how beautiful she is, how wonderful and how intelligent she is. The problem, you see, is that I have just spoken "love" to her in my language, not in hers. If I pick up the slightest, unexpected gift she responds.
So the short answer to "how much sap is too much"? It depends upon which tree the sap comes from!
I hope that this helps!
2006-09-19 05:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him how he feels about it. in a relationship u have to trust everything starts with one doubt and then it keeps building up.
Ask him it doesn't matter what the guys think, wat if half the guys say thats corny & your man loves if ur going to let urself go by what others you'll never b able to express urseslf
2006-09-19 05:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by curiosity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋