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i wan to chill and not rush into anything

2006-09-19 05:37:11 · 21 answers · asked by Nikkiali 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

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People are under the illusion that pleasure is everything that's why. Find some people more realistic, but hey there's nothing wrong with sex if and when your ready. Not all guys between 13 and 25 just think about sex. That's simply not true. The majority yes, but there are some that are more balanced out there.

2006-09-19 05:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

Not enough information. How old is "every boy". Are they 12-25? Are they 50? Are they 7? 12-25, the job description of an adolescent male is to propagate the human race. If they are 50 and you are a minor, tell your parents and/or call the authorities. If they are under 12, tell your parents also.

If you want to not be sexually active, hang with groups of people instead of going out on dates or double dates.

Don't go out with a boy/man to a secluded place and expect him to not put the moves on you. If you just want to socialize, hang out and chill with girlfriends.

2006-09-19 06:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0 0

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That is the way us guys have to be wired. You gals are also wired to have sex at anytime, not just when you are ready to conceive. We guys have to be ALWAYS ready, willing, and able, even if at the moment you gals aren't. Don't expect us to turn it off, just because you aren't turned on. And we guys believe that there is always a positive chance. So we must keep searching. Otherwise the human race would die out.

So live with this issue and just say "no" until you want to say "yes". Don't expect guys to read your mind. We just aren't very sensitive to female thoughts and modes. And please give the guy a simple and straight answer. KISS..

Would you like it better if females would go into heat like dogs and cats, and guys would only be interested in sex at that time?
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2006-09-19 06:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by James S 3 · 1 0

if that is the only thing they want to do then that shows you that they are only after you for one thing and when they get it they'll be gone. keep holding strong on chillin... Don't do anything that you don't want to do. Be strong... Never let them talk you into going somewhere private... That's where the peer pressure really hits... And just because someone else is doing it... It doesn't mean that you have to..( mother of 4 boys and 1 girl)

2006-09-19 05:46:53 · answer #4 · answered by rfcnorton 1 · 0 0

Because that is all boys want at your age. Stand your ground and continue to chill.

2006-09-19 05:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by blueyes2001 4 · 0 0

Maybe because you're gorgeous, have nice long legs, hips that every man would go mad, beautiful smile or gentle voice, or you're smart & funny, adorable, magnet to the oposite sex.

2006-09-19 05:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by equilibrist 2 · 0 0

Not rushing into anything is the right attitude...don't ever do anything that your feeling pressured into...it's okay to say no...you'll feel better about yourself and still have your self respect.

2006-09-19 05:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by pritty_princess_c 4 · 0 0

Well your right. I was most likely younger than you and I made a mistake of giving in and I got pregnant. So stay strong.

2006-09-19 06:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by reba s 2 · 0 0

because sex is a feel good experience physically. but don't do it just because "everyone else" is doing it. it's so much more meaningful and wonderful when you also connect on a spiritual and intellectual level. not just wham bang thank you kind.

2006-09-19 10:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by jay 3 · 0 0

what ill say any guy from 10 till 100 wants sex and they mite if thay live longer too

2006-09-19 05:42:15 · answer #10 · answered by tiny_dick1932 2 · 0 0

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