what would ya do if the love of your life returned and ring ya bell and say sorry.......for leaving ya once.....now i am back....
?????? what would ya do? (the truth...)
2006-09-19 05:24:01 · 10 answers · asked by Helen from Greece 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
They say if you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours!
2006-09-19 05:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by Blue Eyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would really depend on several factors. First of all, are you single, thats a big one. If you are, there isn't a problem with at least talking. Secondly, how bad did it hurt you when they left, what were the circumstances? Did they cheat on you or just thought it was time to move on? Were they noncommittal or what? If they hurt you terribly and cheated on you, I would definately keep it strickly on a friends only basis. Depending on how long its been since they were in your life you would probably have to start all over again. If the pain of their leaving was dramatic, ask yourself if you really want to go through that heartache again if the same thing happens.
I was engaged when I was younger, thought he was my soul mate, we broke up and then met up again several years later. I realized then that what I felt for him back then isn't the same as what I felt later on. Too much had happened, I had grown, matured and he didn't seem to have very much. We talked for a few days and that was all I could handle. I couldn't deal with the trauma of going through it all over again, it was too much.
2006-09-19 12:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by Sandi A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your current situation. Are you married? Did you break up with your true love in the first place because of cheating or abuse? Is the person broke & desperate? I'd need a lot of answers.
2006-09-19 12:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happen to me twice (different individuals)and for the same reason we broke up the same reason we broke up agin. I dont belive in that dont eat your own vomit . I think the bible also talk about not sure though. Take Care!!!
2006-09-19 12:35:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, I have done that once. I left someone, and then I came back to them. It was an awesome experience. I'd like to tell you 'bout it. IM me
2006-09-19 12:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by Dead 2 Self 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he came back I would sit and talk to him, but, only as friends, or starting out that way.
2006-09-19 12:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by Elizabeth S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on my current situation...second chances are easy to come by, everybody gets them...it's the 3rd and 4th chances that are few and far between
2006-09-19 15:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd take him back b/c I'm so in luv wit him right now. He is my baby daddy so....
Kandi
2006-09-19 12:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by Kandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was single I would be tempted to give him a chance.
2006-09-19 12:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by ms. fix-it 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not love.
2006-09-19 12:48:44 · answer #10 · answered by master ji 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋