sleep with another woman would you do ? or would you leave him?
2006-09-19 05:14:32 · 8 answers · asked by txrkanawalls 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think there is a fine line between fantasy and reality.
The fantasy of a threesome is soooooo inviting. I can't tell you the number of times I've personally had that one, or the number of times I've been asked if I would enjoy something like that. And... if everyone is unattached it can (and has been from personal experiance) a wonderful time! Mind blowing!!!
BUT....
Once you are in a committed relationship (i.e. monogomous b/f-g/f, married, etc) then there is a HUGE danger in adding a third to the bedroom. I have yet to see a time where this actually worked out for the best if the couple has never done this before and then did it when in a committed relationship.
What has been the problem? Every time its been the same. One of the committed partners starts freaking out (usually later but sometimes during the threesome) that the other one prefers the "new" person over them. Or that the will prefer them over them. or they had too good a time with them and will they meet them one-on-one now. Every time it has ruined the relationship. EVERY single time!
Now.. thats not to say it can't work. I've seen it work... like I said earlier... if none of the participants is in a committed relationship it works.. and I've seen it work when the partners have done it before falling into the committed relationship - but even then I've seen that blow up too.
so... to answer your question...yes I've done it... yes I've been asked by my b/f and I said no. He was interested because he knew I had done it before and wanted to see what he was missing. And I guess it was something he just couldn't get past because a while later he broke up with me because I wouldn't do this (go figure) and he told me that is one of the reasons we were together was that "possibility" was out there and once that was gone... so was he.
So.. if YOU don't want to do it tell him why and see what he does... chances are you may not have to leave him... he may leave you... or he may surprise you and say .. "ok.. cool.. i was just curious". the bottom line is never, ever, ever, never let anyone PUSH you into doing anything you don't want to do. ever!
2006-09-19 05:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't do that, I love my husband very much and I would never share him with another woman! It would be too hard to do that because there is LOVE involved! Way too much emotion!!
2006-09-19 05:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would look at him like he was stupid, and ask him if he is stupid!!! Then i would ask him to sleep with another man. IF he does it then I wiould leave him, if he doesn't then I wouldn't sleep with another women and I wouldn't leave him!
2006-09-19 05:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by :Dazed and Confused: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
specific. I won't say it occurs continuously, yet I extremely prefer it now and then. i think of it comes from desirous to work out the **data** of his exhilaration. or possibly I purely happen to sense like "being grimy." ;-) besides, decide for it. it extremely is relaxing to do on occasion.
2016-10-17 06:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by lagrone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go for it. It will be an exciting experience you will never forget and will make him very happy! You only live once.
2006-09-19 05:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would sleep with another woman .....
2006-09-19 05:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by kjoh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can ask that doesn't mean that i'll do it. Would I leave him for asking - probably not.
2006-09-19 05:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by Minina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes.. i think i would do anything for my man... he deserves it cause he makes me feel so good. I only want to please him and make him happy.
2006-09-19 05:57:50 · answer #8 · answered by Chrissie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋