Ok, I really like this girl named Josie in my class and I'm pretty sure she knows it, I talked to her best friend Caileigh and she guessed that I liked her, she then told Josie. I dunno how to impress her or anything, I really like her and I wanna go out with her, I think that one of the problems interfering with her is that I'm the "School Goth" I dress in all black but dont worship Satan or anything alot of the people say I'm really nice,any tips? Another problem is that this girl I know really likes me and I dont wanna hurt her by telling her I like Josie and not her
2006-09-19 05:12:25 · 10 answers · asked by (s)AINT 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
The only reason Im not in school right now is cuz I'm at home sick lol
2006-09-19 05:17:59 · update #1
Ok, don't try to impress her, because no offense, but Ia lot of guys look like total idiots when they try to impress girls. If she knows you like her, there's not much more you can do. Just make sure when she looks at you, you smile a little and don't look away too fast. Give her time, and if she starts showing any signs of liking you, don't hesitate to ask her out. We (girls) don't like it when guys think they have to go through other people or are too scared to ask us personally. Good luck!
oh and I wouldn't really consider you goth, I mean there's nothing wrong with dressing in all black, I wouldn't do it, but you can't judge people by that. She might think it will give her a bad reputation or something, some people think that way. of course, I can't say anything about you, I don't know you, that's just my opinion.
almost forgot, you said there's another girl that likes you? umm...you can go either way with that one. If you tell her you don't like her, just say something like "I'm sorry, I don't like you that way, but we can be friends if you want." obviously don't say that if you don't want to be friends, but you get what I'm saying. your other option is to not say anything, let her go on liking you. as long as you don't tease her about it, which you don't sound like the kind of person that would, she should be fine.
you sound like a really nice person, so you shouldn't have too much trouble☺
2006-09-19 09:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately people judge you by the way you look but I think you already know that. If you really like this girl and want to impress her, tone down the Goth clothing because image is not everything and girls are really not into the Goth thing (unless thats the kind of girl you want). Take her out to dinner (not McDonalds), go for a walk, and then a movie. Regarding the other girl, be honest - sometimes it hurts but it never comes back to haunt you.
2006-09-19 12:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by Ron G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to confront Josie alone and talk about hanging out, maybe take her out to dinner a movie something like that. And than discuss that you like and would like to see how things go.
About The other girl tell her before you ask out Josie so she wont feel like you betrayed her and tell her that you like her a lot as a friend but your not the guy shes supposed to be with and that she'll get her guy.
2006-09-19 12:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by gooblysillyputty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is kind of in response to the first answer....
You have to ask yourself if you're willing to give up your chosen "identity" for this girl. Obviously, you chose goth for a reason. If you're really into it, why give it up just for her? Unless (of course) you're not really that into it.....
Seriously, I know it sounds ridiculous, but just talk to her. Find out what she's into, what she likes, what kind of music she listens to. Girls totally dig it when a guy is interested in what THEY like. Trying too hard to impress her is a sure way to turn her off. Be nice, but don't be macho or anything. Girls see right through that stuff.
If you guys have something in common, it will lead to more conversation, which may lead to a friendship, which may lead to something more. If you don't have anything in common, it's a lot tougher, but not impossible. You'll just have to take it slow and continue to be nice. Eventually it will either work or it won't. If it doesn't, then it was never going to happen no matter what you did.
Good luck!
2006-09-19 12:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by J K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just buck up, and ask Josie out! Try to do it early in the week, so she'll still (hopefully) be available some time this weekend. But don't wimp out on this, Slick....and don't think you need you need to impress her; just be a gentleman, and be yourself. I was in your shoes once, and chickened out when it came to actually asking the girl out and telling her how I felt about her. I ended up almost losing her completely; but 14 years (and one failed marriage to somebody else) later, I finally managed to find her again -- this time I went for broke, and now we're married! Granted, you're probably a little young to be thinking about that; but I'm the living proof -- fair-tale happy endings do happen!
Best of luck to you!
2006-09-19 12:22:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright first of all...if your a goth but don't worship satan or you don't practice black magic or if you did not have a bad childhood...then why are you a goth???? if this josie girl is a well-dressed prep looking girl...you won't get her with that outfit..sorry...dress nice since everyone says you are nice..and just be yourself..the goth look may look cool to you..but it makes everyone (even girls) scared to talk or be with you...
2006-09-19 12:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by +RUS+ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Idiot. Why talk to the other girl when you like Josie? Later she will think you were only trying to flirt with her. Start talking more often to Josie now onward.
Ask for her book or anything to start ;-)
Good Luck!!!
2006-09-19 15:10:23 · answer #7 · answered by switch 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself, whether you are the "School Goth" or the "School King" express your interest to the one you like and if she is seeing someone else or she responds to you positively then go from there...about the other girl that you don't like, there is no reason to hurt her feelings, you can still be friends can't you?
2006-09-19 12:20:52 · answer #8 · answered by Say It Again M'am 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people cant help who they are attracted to if this girl is not attracted to you for whatever reason whether it be your looks or personality or style move on find someone else. and by the way im just curious shouldnt you be in school right about now?
2006-09-19 12:16:01 · answer #9 · answered by heather d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont wear black all the time and talk to josie more often
2006-09-19 12:15:04 · answer #10 · answered by I need Answers 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋