2006-09-19 05:09:52 · 7 answers · asked by Nikkiali 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well if you feel that way, ask him about his feelings on sex, then tell him yours. If you your not ready for it than don't let anyone push you into it, just be honest with him and you can't go wrong. If he shows too much interest in it, tell him you think its best you not go out with him anymore because you two aren't on the same level and if he's not patient than you do not need him around trying to take advantage of you.
2006-09-19 05:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by Charmed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that's all he's interested in then that is probably all he is interested in. If you give in, you will lose respect for yourself, you will feel used and hurt, worthless and your self-esteem will suffer. You might not think so at the time, but take it from someone a bit older, who made some poor choices at a younger age.
You'll feel empowered, confident, worthwhile and strong if you listen to your head. Not to mention, respect yourself and your body and your health - make sure you choose not to sleep with someone if they first refuse to get an STD test and even if they take an STD test and its clean - USE PROTECTION. By the way - when I started listening to my head I met the man of my dreams - we are now married and I have never been HAPPIER!
A great book: "He's Just Not That Into You"By Greg Behrendt and
Liz Tuccillo
or
"Stop Getting Dumped " by Lisa Daily (website: http://www.stopgettingdumped.com/)
2006-09-19 05:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by family_matters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself for marriage
If a guy is willing to wait he really loves you
If a guy respects you, he will keep his hands to himself
don't have sex just to be near a guy
ask him if he would like his future wife to be having sex with someone right now!!
Please, keep yourself pure
2006-09-19 05:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by Suzie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys want sex and will do just about everything possible to get it (gifts, movies...). Exclude the sex, time will tell if he really likes you. Have fun!
2006-09-19 05:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by Ron G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men only date women for sex. You won't find a man who doesn't want it.
2006-09-19 05:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then he's a jerk and doesn't deserve you. Don't waste your time on guys who are only interested in one thing from you.
2006-09-19 07:36:34 · answer #6 · answered by ♥jen♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then obviously he's has no feelings for you, he's only interested in getting inside your jeans. Leave him, trust me he won't miss you!!!!
2006-09-19 09:37:41 · answer #7 · answered by meamy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋