I lost several babies during pregnancy. When I was pregnant with my son she told me "If you lose this baby, it is all your fault". I forgave her for saying that because I know she is uneducated in this field. However, during my second successful pregnancy I didn't tell anyone (except my husband) that I was pregnant. (for obvious reasons.) I made the announcement at my son's 2nd birthday party. (Which she did not attend) and she had to hear about it from someone else. She was really upset about it. Was I wrong not to tell her right away. We have never been close. She abandoned us when we were very young and I was raised by my father. We used to go years without seeing each other. I haven't talked to her in about a year and the last phone call I made (around the holidays) I called and begged her to talk to me. What should I do?
I should add that I later found out that I am progesterone deficiant. I need to take hormones during pregnancy.
2006-09-19
04:58:43
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Let me add this. Leave my husband out of this. He is in the military (thankfully in the states) and he is away most of the week. I don't need to wine to him about my problems when he is stressed enough as it is. He already knows what is going on with my mother and he really can't relate to my situation at all.
2006-09-19
11:45:34 ·
update #1