i love a guy very much. we used to talk a lot. we have done evry thing. even though we had physical relation like kissing. but the guy now is telling that he only likes me very much. he has never expressed his love for me. i dnt knw what to do. i can not live w'out him. please help me.....
2006-09-19 04:16:25 · 11 answers · asked by lipsa m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
them him how you feel, Im sure he probley knows it but he needs to hear it in order for him to respond. He may be the type of guy who reacts only if hes sure the girl is into him!
2006-09-19 04:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by ♥RN♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, yes you can live without him. Your life should not be
centered around just one thing or one person. There are so
many things that makes one's life happy & wonderful.
Second, I know this hurts, but is it not better to find out now,
how he truly feels, than later, when more time is invested or
you are actually married? You would be crushed if you found
out later, rather than now.
Sounds to me like you have a beautiful heart and love people
very openly. So, since this guy does not feel this way, you will
be able to find love again, and I betcha, you will find Mr. Right.
Trust me, you will know in your heart & very soul know when it is
totally right. I waited till I had that feeling, cause I believe that is
how love should feel. And I've been married for 23 years now.
Of course, you will hurt for awhile, that is so natural. Just keep
yourself busy with other projects & everytime your mind wanders
off to that subject, say..."Nope, it just wasn't meant to be."
I'm sorry for rambling on and on. I just wanted to help.
I've been there too. Loved several men before I found my hubby.
Wishing you lots of luck & a great day.
2006-09-19 11:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by //////////////// 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, Whoa, you have to understand that you need to get ahold of yourself!!!!. Women don't need to have a man to feel whole. If you love him so much and for some reason he doesn't feel the same maybe you need to stop and figure out why he is denying you. Second, how long have you two been seeing each other and dating? Maybe you fall alot quicker then he does and maybe he is scared that you have fell before he has. Men are funny like that, they think with their unit, women sometimes don't use their heads to think with they use their hearts. Before you start blaming him for doing anything sit back and try to look at the whole picture. Maybe things are moving a bit fast. Before you met him were you in love with someone else? Could he be the rebound or are you the rebound for him? Or if none of this applies..... Does he have someone else? If he does have someone else.... your gonna loose him if you haven't already and at that point I would take some time to myself and find out who you are before you get involved in another relationship.
I hope that helps... Good Luck!!!!
2006-09-19 11:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by Redneck Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on sweety!its no use hanging upto him.he has told u directly to go,so just make a move.if u hang on,he will use u further and dump u like he did now.there are better people waiting out there.don waste your time behind him!just chill!!
2006-09-19 11:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this guy confused or what? he just likes you? maybe he just want to be friends with benefits...and that is not a good thing...he better tells you, he loves you, if not, end the relationship and move on.
2006-09-19 11:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by OnionSkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can and will live without him. You need to know that you deserve better. You deserve someone who loves you, not someone that would lead you on to hurt you.
2006-09-19 11:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by Tam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl expression to him in words how you feel... maybe you might get something outta of the situation instead of just a kiss. i noe it might be hard to get da nerve but once you do no matter wut happens you be glad for da risk you took.
2006-09-19 11:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by simply keshia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk with your parents
2006-09-19 11:23:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else, if he doesnt truly know if he loves you or not.
2006-09-19 11:19:40 · answer #9 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how could he??
move on, it will be hard...very hard......hell, may take years....but you'll get over it........
2006-09-19 11:19:47 · answer #10 · answered by stress77mulah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋