look i'm 2 mths and i call him nothing he's voice mail and he has not call me back its been a week and four day's and now it looks like i going to be a mom on my own what do i need to do about it? HELP PLEASE
2006-09-19 04:12:36 · 12 answers · asked by cassie r 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
he all so has a girl and a little boy with 2 other women
2006-09-19 04:38:22 · update #1
keep th kid dont ever try to get rid of him he is going to bring joy to youre life and instead of being sad and crying because he doesnot answer try to get help get a job and get ready because this baby is going to love you and you are going to love him.. if youre bf dont want him you be a strong person and show him that you dont need someone like him. dont look at this as a mistake look at this like a way to gain streinght and dont ever give up ...
2006-09-19 04:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by *********** 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's gone hon. It also unfortunately sounds like he's done this before.
You need to try to pick yourself up and get ready for being a single mom. Don't worry, lots of people are single moms now. I bet you could find a lot of them right here that could offer you some support and encouragement.
Surround yourself with friends and family and enjoy being pregnant regardless of his cowardice.
But you also need to make sure that he doesn't have the opportunity to slip out of his responsibilities. File with the court so that you can get child support from him when the baby is born.
As for getting him back... forget about it. He's a punk.
2006-09-19 11:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off...I'm sorry he has not called you. If mine would have not been there for me I don't know what I would have done. Its very scary but it sounds like you are very brave already. If i were you I would go to a Planned Parenthood and talk to someone about what you need to know as far as your pregnancy and how to start planning for the baby. They are very supportive and can help. If you don't have any money contact your local County Health Dept. and they will do the same thing Planned Parenthood would do. Good Luck and God Bless....you can do it grl!
2006-09-19 11:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by CMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation at one time. So I just left him alone. If he comes around from the shock then good. But if not you must be strong for you and your child. There are alot of single mothers out there that are doing better then their children father. Just don't stress you don't need that right now in your life. Just try to keep yourself busy to try to get it off your mind. And if he doesn't help after the child is born just file for child support. You didn't do it by yourself. And he needs to take care of his responsibilities if not physical then financially. Please take care of you and the baby.
2006-09-19 12:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by volcano 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just told my boyfriend the exact thing and I've gotten the same reaction. He lives in another state now and so he avoids me when I call or email him. I'm also 2 months along now so I know what your going through. Just don't let it bother you. This might be normal because he is still in shock with the news.
2006-09-19 11:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kw the feelin!! i am also preg(8 mos) and the guy im preg by has 3 other children by 3 other women and is still with one of them!! i already have 2 children!! this guy doesnt give a **** about me bein preg i was just a piece of *** to him!! i kw its hard but just say the hell with him because once u hold ur beautiful perfect lil baby in ur arms nothin or nobody will matter!! kids have a way of changing our lives behind our imagination!! im raising my kids by myself im 20 and in nursing school! so believe me anything is possible!! good luck with everything and remember that child will be ur life!! u dont need him
2006-09-19 11:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by brittany 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write him a long letter and say hey I didn't create this baby by myself so you need to help or at least tell me how you feel. If he was man enough to sleep with you with no protextion then he needs to be man enough to step up and help. Goodluck
Also let him know that he is gonna be the one missing out on such a great time that when he is old and gray he will regret it. CONGRATS
2006-09-19 11:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by embsmg 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to your local courthouse to the child support enforcement department. Start the paperwork now. They will help establish paternity and support. This may be the only contact you have with him, but your child deserves at least that much from the bum. Good Luck!
2006-09-19 11:22:01 · answer #8 · answered by working mom of 3 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
MEN...lol my daughters daddy is just like that..you are better off with out him...you will find someone that will love you and your child eventually you dont need that type of stress it could hurt the baby
2006-09-19 11:45:56 · answer #9 · answered by Kristi S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. Why would you want someone like that around your baby anyway. The only thing you will need from him is child support. Take him to the cleaners.
2006-09-19 11:24:02 · answer #10 · answered by j3572h 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋