was married for 9yrs an i know we are better off apart for th kids an us.And i know we are Through forever but why would i still got back to her if she asked me???
2006-09-19 04:00:59 · 10 answers · asked by uggzy004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because she was a very important part of your life for a long time.
You have kids with her so you think about her everytime you look at your kids.
It is something that takes time.
2006-09-19 04:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called love. You can't just turn that off because you no longer are together. You sound like you have deep feelings for her. Just keep in mind the reason why you seperated to begin with. It's easy to sit and think of all the good times, but you have to remember the bad as well. You should go out more and try to meet people. I'm not saying go find a woman. You need a friend. Good luck.
2006-09-19 04:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she is and was a very important part of your life. She is the mother of your children and to some degree you will always care about her and she will care about you. You have a history with her, but chances are you know that she has probably moved on and you should too. If you know that you all are better off apart then you know if you were together again it wouldn't be any different that time either. I think the key will be for you two to still have a good communication link and remain good co-parents for your children.
2006-09-19 04:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by aboxernamedgrace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but probably because you are weak, because you have low self-esteem. You should change that, and be proud to be alone, and be without her.
Actually I could be wrong - if it has been 10 years since you've broken up then what i said above is probably true. If not, just give yourself time, you'll get over it.
2006-09-19 04:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend I can relate I'm going through a similar situation.with someone for a long time and there no longer here it hurts. As someone already said you can't just turn off your love for her like a light.It takes time and everyone as there own time. Love can mend your life or love can break your heart.your friend who can relate.
2006-09-19 04:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by Sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No avoiding the stages my friend. First you you are in denial , then you get mad and then you accept it. How long you stay in these stages varies but you will experience them to get over the relationship.
2006-09-19 04:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one with the true answer/s as to why you can't get over your ex, mate.
Unless you are prepared to let go, you will continue with your past.
2006-09-19 04:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy- your still in love and know she is your soulmate
2006-09-19 04:15:05 · answer #8 · answered by Christopher b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you areuse to her being there and the comforts
2006-09-19 05:09:32 · answer #9 · answered by wanda h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u still luv him
2006-09-19 04:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by don;t know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋