June left, no warning just left, bought loads of young clothes lost loads of weight and started staying out all night with people half her age. Im want her home, im trying to give her time and space, but worry what she will do in the interim, (ie, sleep with someone else). She says we are both single now and what she does is non of my business, cant accept that which is selfish of me but im in love with her as i have been for 23 years. I cant and wont let her go, and will physically damage anyone interferring with my wife
2006-09-19 03:56:23 · 8 answers · asked by Christopher b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I go forward, never backward
2006-09-19 04:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she says she single now and can do what she wants then she means it. And she probably has already slept with someone else but shes not gonna tell you if she has.
I know several women that has done this and found that the grass wasn't always greener on the other side and ended up going back home, but here is always the exception to that rule, maybe she fell out of love with you (it happens) and she really does want to start a new life.
As far as you getting physical with someone who is dating her, if you ever want her back that's not the way to do it that will only drive her further away.
If you are serious about wanting her back then you need to act like your moving on to. Go out with friends, let her see you having a good time and maybe dancing with another woman, or out to dinner with another woman. If she wants you back then she will come running. If she has no intention of coming back then she will congratulate you on moving on and you will know its over and you will have to let her go wither you want to or not. She is not your property and she is free to do whatever she wants.
2006-09-19 11:07:03 · answer #2 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she's gone so wake up and smell the coffee !!!! Grow a back bone and be a man and move on !!!! If she says you are both single now and what she does is none of your business that means she's finished with you and yes, she's probably already sleeping with other men. So now it's time for you to be a man and move on.
2006-09-19 11:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by gozedown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you end of in jail bruiser, you need to calm down. I understand that you still love your wife, but she doesn't love you anymore. She has informed you to stay out of her business. It's hard to handle when someone doesn't love you anymore, but you have to move on. I'm sure there are children involved and you need to think about them. Do you want them to see their dad act like a punk? Be strong and work on yourself. You will be happy again. Right now you are just hurt.
2006-09-19 11:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by cookie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is time to move on for the sake of yourself and family. If you haven't already, file for divorce and custody of the children.
Be a great father and move forward. Seek therapy for yourself and family. You are setting out on a new path in your life. Take care and good luck.
2006-09-19 11:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is done with you .sounds like you have a new women in your life and it is your old wife in new cloths and views and friends a whole new woman and she is just waiting for you to give a da-m and show her a good time i get a new wife every 3 -5 years if this is not the one you like be cool play the game and she well change again .it my be to late as it sounds like she is done with you
2006-09-19 11:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant make someone love u so your doing the right thing by giving her space but try to move on yourself, like now... Chances r, she's not coming back
2006-09-19 11:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by furbee_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
50 %
2006-09-19 11:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by don;t know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋