and do you think differently if a guy does it on the first date?
2006-09-19 03:53:05 · 32 answers · asked by cc 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Each person has their own mind, and the ability to use it. I do think that if a person may consider something more than just sex from that person in the future, then male or female, they shouldn't be doing the nasty at first.
2006-09-19 06:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by persnickety1022 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel, if guys or girls are having sex on the first date merely for the fun of it or playing some power game just to see how many they can "score", than it's wrong. On the other side, if there is a mutual attraction (and one party isn't drunk out of their mind), go for it! Just play safe......because you probably don't know much about your partner's past.
2006-09-19 04:00:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it was an organised date i wouldn't let it happen. Everyone's had 1 night stands, some that brew to a relationship. But personally i'd be sub consiously feared that it may just take anyone else 1 night. if ye know what a mean
2006-09-19 04:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by SIMON T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its down to the person themselves and their on conscience.
Sometimes things happen when you're at least expecting it and i can't see why women get branded as 'tarts' for sleeping with the guys on the first date when guys get away scott free!
2006-09-19 03:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by fifitrixie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had sex with my husband on our first date..We have been married 18 years !
2006-09-19 03:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think both in the same....I think that out of self respect we need to wait.. The longer we wait to get to know someone the better it will be and the more the other person will respect you...but hey if thats what you wanna do and can live with it ..have at it..you know?
2006-09-19 03:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by Machelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grrrrrreeeat
2006-09-19 07:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by blissman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not think anything differently of the girl or guy.
2006-09-19 03:58:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it makes any difference as you get older........if thats what you want to do then do it !! If it's younger girls then i think that gives young men an excuse to call them easy and younger girls tend to do it because they think the guy will lke them and want to see them again.
2006-09-19 03:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by tinkerbell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They should'nt, and neither should a guy.....wait for the right time, it will happen. You don't want to loose self respect on your first date.
2006-09-19 03:55:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋