i was 16 & was told a story about a indian chief been buried in a nearby cemetary & if u stand on the grave u will b cursed. well needless to say i did & yelled out that i hate idians & f*** u! well i think im cursed cause i have a photo of an idian standing by me. HELP ME BREAK THIS CURSE!!!!
2006-09-19 03:44:13 · 33 answers · asked by fancyface4055 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
just to let everyone know this was 9 yrs ago & i feel really really really bad!!!!!! me doing this was the results of drugs & alcohol affecting my good judgement! I have apologized many many times over the last year! I don't think it is working though!
2006-09-19 04:01:53 · update #1
i have not yet researched the story & the ppl who told me the story was 45 @ the time. so i do believe him in a way. im not scared but more like concerned wether this will affect my children! i know everyone who says it's all in my head is sayin so due to their own beliefs but gosh this has affected me for so many yrs! i truly & honestly believe that this possible curse has a huge affect on why im so poor! i have never been able to have $ to save it's always going towards bills! so anyways thank u to everyone who has & will give me advice!
2006-09-19 05:30:41 · update #2
Interesting. You could try returning to the cemetery, standing on the grave, and apologise. Additional thoughts: take an offering, bouquet of flowers, vegetables, herbs, or some small token of your sincerity, you could light a a votive candle and leave it there, smudge the area with sage or sweetgrass. But you must be sincere in your actions. You can also ask your guardian angels to help and you. Whatever you choose and however you choose to do it, it will be coming from you, there is no one right way to deal with this. End result will be you will lose your guilt and hopefully feel better. And you may just gain another guardian spirit!
Blessed be.
2006-09-19 03:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by reynwater 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you apologize because you're afraid of the curse, it is not a sincere apology. Each time you do that, you make your fear (and therefore the curse) stronger.
Sometime, think about what has been done to the indians. Most of them murdered, their land stolen, their way of life and culture taken away, instead of being one with nature as they'd always been they've become slaves to alcohol, etc. etc. etc. All this was done to them by people of your race. If you realize the tragedy of that and then see what you did to top it off and it breaks your heart, that would be a sincere apology.
You might have to apologize that way more than once. But when you have moved away from self-concern and actually are sorry, the curse will disappear.
2006-09-19 05:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sigh.
C'mon now, you're TWENTY-FIVE, for goodness sake!
You were NOT cursed. HAD you have been, you would NOT be here now to talk about it!
So you jumped around over some buried meat(yup, that's ALL that was put in there, nothing living)that, by the time YOU got there, was probably just the odd bone or two. At the MOST, it was incredibly disrespectful, but I forgive you and I'm sure the ethereal being that was the Indian, had he seen you, would have too, along with laughing at the absurdity of seeing you, drunk as a skunk, prancing around shouting profanities.
Have you since researched the "story" you were told about the curse? Or do you trust whomever told you to have been 100% accurate with their rendition of it to you? Were they drunk too, perhaps? Do you not realise, now you have aged, that 16 year olds-children-love to make up scary stories?
Curses are great. Those who "cast" them, need expend no energy on their creation at all, as those cursed do ALL the work themselves! It's called "sympathetic Magic". Or you may understand the word "Placebo" better.
Listen hun, you're no longer a kid. You're a young adult. Start acting like one please, it's embarrassing!
(and it's giving your friends a good laugh at your expense)
All the best.
2006-09-19 04:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by googlywotsit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the people here understand what you are asking of them. Here are a few places where you can go and look for uncrossing spells or unhexing spells. Good luck with the hunt. I will say an extra prayer and surround you with a white bubble tonight. Yes, I do believe in God. Also I am a practising witch. The reason is God has given me the ability to intregrate both into my life and there is nothing wrong with good magic. For every one out there that thinks that ALL magick is bad, I will let you know right now that with the help of God and magick my faith has gotten stronger. He gives us the power and the resources to do this. He has given me much more than any one will ever know. I hope that people are open minded about this, but I also know that people are afraid of what they do not understand or can't see.
2006-09-19 09:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by bearwitch1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this one is a big one. You desecrated a sacred Indian burial ground (not to mention standing on his grave!) My suggestion is to find an elder of that tribe and ask for advice. Curses may be broken (truly), but you may need some guidance in this one. It's beyond any curses I have ever encountered. Apologizing means taking responsibility yourself, not blaming drugs and alcohol as if you had no part in it. This is to prepare you for what the chief or elder will tell you. Do exactly what they suggest.
2006-09-19 15:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can be a hard one. The power of the native is so strong here. If you truly wish to be forgiven you will have to find a native holy man or shaman in that area.Your avatar portrays you as at least Pagan so you must know that there are certain rules to this that must be adhered to. In the old days, and sometimes even now, an offering of tobacco and sage were offered to the shaman for his aid. You may want to remember this when trying to enlist help from one. This is the only way that I can think of at the moment.
Not knowing you, or where you are at, I can only offer you that and my prayers to Great Spirit to try to guide you through this.
My faith is based on the red way, or native spirituality, and as I am an shaman I know of what I say to be true.
May you find your way to peace and forgiveness.
Aho,
Fenix
2006-09-19 17:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by Fenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What evidence do you have to say you are cursed? Have really bad things happened to you? Does nothing do right for you? If you are cursed then you should speak with the people that started the story and they should be able to tell you how to break the curse.
I personally don't believe in curses. I think they are just stories to scare people. My opinion don't believe in it and nothing will happen. You give the curse its power.
2006-09-19 06:35:17 · answer #7 · answered by Nelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for natural soil, in other words ground that man has not made, stand in the soil with your bare feet close your eyes and concentrate. you should start to feel the power of mother nature going go up your feet once you do think about your curse and ask mother nature help your get rid of the curse, if you start feeling a tingling sunsation on the top of your hear or you start feeling dizzy then its working. but what you did was a very silly thing and be in under no illusions the curse will not be lifted until the Indian feels justice has been served. you can talk to him when you are asleep
2006-09-19 03:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by azmondo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go to a library and search for a book about curse. Or do a naked dance and pic yourself while doing it to break the curse then replace the photo.
2006-09-19 03:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by deshanto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to the cemetary and appologize to the Indian that you cursed and hope the curse will be broken..
2006-09-19 03:55:24 · answer #10 · answered by sea_sher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋