I'm 15.I have a boyfriend(he is my school-mate).When we are out of school(at home or at his home) he is a very good 'boyfriend' - we kiss and hug each-other...we feel good.But when we are at school(during the break) he is just like friend,he doesn't want to look like we are in love,because he is ashamed he has a girlfriend and thinks if the others see that,they will get at him.I don't want to hide our relationship,I think if someone loves me and I love him,we shouldn't hide our feelings.It's like we are in love out of school,but we are not in love at school.Please,help me,what should I do?
2006-09-19 03:25:37 · 11 answers · asked by Samanta H 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Is he ashamed of you or is he just mature enough to know that public displays of affection are inappropriate?
Talk to him about a compromise - hold hands, allow each other a quick kiss before running into a classroom. There was nothing worse than seeing kids in high school making out in the corridors - blech!
2006-09-19 05:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by AlongthePemi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is seeing someone else at your school and probably acts the same way to her. i would be extremely suprised if a boy of 15 is in love...
Apologies for sounding cynical but we have all been there and sweetie, it just doesn't go the way you want. if it does, let me know in future and i will applaud you both and shut my stupid mouth.
ask him - it's the only way. if you truly love each other then nothing would stand in his way. unfortunately, at 15 his feelings are likely to be ruled by peer-pressure (like you say) or other factors (as i have already indicated). ask him - find out for sure what the problem is for sure.
Alternatively, you can make use of this and spend your time with friends or working. always handy to have others around you in case something is wrong... x
2006-09-19 10:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well when i was 15 my boyfriend wanted everyone to know that he had a girl...but he was kind of a dork and i was hot so it was to his advantage.
not trying to lecture you BUT most schools have rules on affection being showed. Maybe he is trying to concentrate on school while he is there...as long as he isn't denying that you are his girl then you don't have a problem...and if you are 15 shouldn't you be in school right now!! priorities dear priorities!
2006-09-19 10:30:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, he is basically using you. He wants something better but will settle for you for now. The reason he doesn't show his affection in school is because he wants to show that he is "available" to the other girls. You mentioned love, I'm sorry but try not to take these relationships too seriously in high school because guys don't take them seriously until their in their 30's.
2006-09-19 12:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by Ron G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That just mean he has a lot of females he is trying to impress. Girl so stop trippin you only 15 calm the **** down
2006-09-19 10:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by camilia b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, to me, it sounds like he's embarrassed of you. You know, like he's embarrassed that your his "girlfriend". That's not really good, because any guy who is embarrassed to be around you in school doesn't sound like a really great guy. Maybe you should talk to him, because I don't know your boyfriend, and I agree with you, you shouldn't hide your feelings at school. Good luck!
2006-09-19 22:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by Accidentally.In.Love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to show you off because he is hoping he will find another girl. He kicks you for seconds, just incase he can't.
If I were you, I would talk to him and let him know if he didn't start acting right, you would leave him.
2006-09-19 11:30:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is trying to keep you on the side with teh hopes he finds something better. Get rid of him and find someone that is proud to be with you.
2006-09-19 10:28:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM NOW
There is something else going on here and you do not want to be any part of it. If he will not acknowledge in public then he should stay away in private.
Get out of this now!!!!!
2006-09-19 12:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by Suzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only fifteen so i would'nt worry about it, there are plenty of guys out there so if you dont like this one ditch him
2006-09-19 12:21:07 · answer #10 · answered by kim_banning84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋