i'm married. my problem is that i fell in love with another married man and moreover we are relatives.
what do you advise me to do?
2006-09-19 03:15:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this man is not my blood relative and he also likes me
2006-09-19 03:29:27 · update #1
Fell in love with another Man...hm, delima delima, let's see a total picture here instead of comments. You are not satisfied so you're looking for satisfaction in all the wrong places.
2006-09-19 03:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I advise you to seek counseling, ASAP.
First, if you're falling in love with a relative, you really need to get some help because there is something mentally wrong with you.
Secondly, if you love your husband, you wouldn't have put yourself in the position to fall in love with another person. A marriage is a committment, not just something to do for fun.
2006-09-19 10:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never should have committed to marriage if you're that fickle. I would advise a divorce or annulment of the marriage. Nothing wrong with falling in love with lots of people. It's natural but if you're married, you're suppose to be through with hunting for other love interests.
2006-09-19 10:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are married and coveting another man - that's sin number one.
Sin number two - you are coveting a relative......
You need to be honest with your spouse, seek counseling, and put back whatever is missing in your marriage.
2006-09-19 10:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by Please use other door 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this man your brother in law? Or is he a blood relative?
Whatever the case may be, it doesn't matter. what matters is that you love your husband and that you work on your marriage. Be faithful to your husband and be faithful to God.
2006-09-19 10:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by Dead 2 Self 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR PROBLEM IS NOT THAT YOU FELL IN LOVE WITH A MARRIED MAN. YOUR ISSUES GO WAY DEEPER THAN THAT. YOU BETTER FIGURE OUT WHAT YOUR PROBLEM IS BEFORE YOU GO AROUND RUINING MORE PEOPLES LIVES, BECAUSE OF YOUR DYSFUNCTIONAL LIFE.
2006-09-19 10:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy you have issues. I think you need to talk to a professional instead of coming on here to find answers b/c you are not going to find ones that you want!
2006-09-19 10:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by Lady C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do that... u should stay with ur husband... the love u r talking about can last only for a few days... better concentrate on ur husband n ur family
2006-09-19 10:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big trouble. Too close to home. It will hurt to many people. Good luck and God bless.
2006-09-19 10:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by Wild Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. You don't have a choice it will only cause a rift in the family.
2006-09-19 10:18:23 · answer #10 · answered by Paka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋