Before i resign my previous job, my gf help me to look around for chances, than she told me to go interview in this "AA" shop, after my interview, i was told to report to work on next monday. On sunday she called me saying die die i must also work or she will get really angry. On Monday, i did not turn up to work and she knows it, sms me saying "Up to you, i don care". This happen 3 days ago, till now she did not call or sms me, i am very worried as she always contact me every 2 days. i msg her asking not to be angry with me and i let her know that i miss her so much. After many sms from me, she replied saying "Don disturb me", "I am very tired, wish to be alone.." What actually happen to her? This is the first time i saw her like this. She is not like this last time. Was she angry with me for not working? Any help? I am very worried. Are woman's thinking different from mens? I am so worried that i don have confident to look for another job. What happen to her? PLEASE HELP ME!!
2006-09-19 03:09:48 · 5 answers · asked by viewfinder357 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think she could be very upset that you don't appreciate her effort to help you to find a job. And the worst thing is that the employer is willing to accept you as a worker, you din even bother to report to work, this will make her even upset. First of all you must take the effort to find out why she wants you to work in the shop that she find for you. With this common understanding, it is easier for both of you to communicate. If you don't like that type of job, yopu should at least tell her and not waste her time to find a job that you don't like. What you need to do now is to apologise to her and clarified things with her. Once you have sort out all these, things will be easier to discuss
2006-09-19 04:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she may have tried very hard before landing you with such a job offer.
If when she called you on sunday, you promised that you will turn up for work but did not, you broke your promise.
If I were here, I wouldnt want someone who breaks his promise as well.
You can try to contact her and find out what is wrong. If not, then i am afraid that you just have to accept that in life, sometimes there is no second chance.
2006-09-19 15:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sounded really irresponsible from the above.
You broke your promise, your girlfriend's heart and her trust in you. You broke practically everything that is breakable.
That basically sums it up. So i suggest you go back and ask for the job because clearly, it means ALOT to your girlfriend that you get that job, then come back and ask for forgiveness. and be sincere about it.
simple as that.
2006-09-20 05:23:37 · answer #3 · answered by mbrmso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u r a loser, ur gf makes the effort to find a job for you.. and who knoes mabbe she got the help of a friend to get u the job..but by not going to work is like failing her..and mabbe ruined her friendship with friend.
as a guy pls tink further
2006-09-19 15:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by dior babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically you're a loser and she wants better. Good for her!
Get a job and actually go to it!
2006-09-19 03:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by Fire_God_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋