My ex wife told me our marriage didn't mean anything because we were married at a registry office (she was unfaithful but, like a fool, I let her divorce me for unreasonable behaviour).
The next girlfriend I had accused me of not being grown up enough because I was upset when she met someone else.
Then the next girlfriend I had told me that I was crap in bed and our relationship was the biggest mistake of her life.
So was I just unlucky, did I marry a skank and date one too many b1tches?
Being a very bad judge of character, I'm not in a hurry to meet anyone else now.
2006-09-19 02:55:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cheers, I second all of that, there's peace in rowing your own boat!
I understand completely!
2006-09-19 08:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you have been unlucky, can i say that all women are not so horrible and thoughtless.
I was married in a register office and it lasted 30 years, it didn't mean any less to me that we wasn't married in church etc, i thought it was for life but you never know what is around the corner!
I met someone on the Internet who turned out to be a right nutter and would not accept the word NO and because i told him i didn't want to see him again he said i hope you die! .. well i would never say such a thing to my worst enemy.
I hope you find the right lady for you, she is out there, just be patient
All the best!
2006-09-19 11:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by maxine m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I've never had anything like that told to me, nor have I ever said anything like that to anyone I've broken up with.
The worst thing said to me by my ex-hubby as he was leaving out the door was that my nose was too big. lol. And every other guy has said it was a cute little nose. Who do I believe? Not the ex who cheated on me with a chick with "big ugly horse teeth" (which even he admitted to once they broke up). lol.
As for you, I'd say you were unlucky. Some people are just naturally drawn to those that deep inside we know are bad for us, but yet we attract the morons anyway. Be a little more selective and have a much slower relationship next time, getting to know someone first before giving your heart. You may discover a not so nice person next time before you fall for them.
2006-09-19 10:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have had a string of bad luck. Don't give up though, the right person is out there for you. Just take some time off from dating for the time being to deal with the pain they all dished out to you.
I don't have the nastiest thing said to me, only the meaness thing. My dad always called me hogfat. Nearly destroyed me growing up. And I wasn't even fat. :( It still hurts even though I'm in my 50's now.
Some people in this world say what they want to say and just don't care about others feelings. Those are the kind of people who you want to stay away from. They have no empathy for others.
2006-09-19 13:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the meanest thing anyone ever said to me was that i was a "mean and hateful person" I am completely the opposite and even though i did not know the person, it REALLY hurt alot!!!
And i think you have just met some really bad people, not all of us women are like that!! There are some good ones still out there that aren't married!!
Good Luck to you :)
2006-09-19 10:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by polarbaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will be ok! No one has ever really said anything bad to me, well my mum said that i was a mistake! But i don't let it get to me! If i let every bad word get me down i wouldn't be here telling you that everything is gonna be ok and things may seem bad now but in 6mnths time u will look back and smile, take them as constructive critisim, use them in your next relationship positivly, you may be able to learn from them! but dont obsess over them!
That would mean you have let the skanky b*tches win!!!
Loves ya and take care!!!
2006-09-19 10:10:04 · answer #6 · answered by GeorgieP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a girlfriend tell me that I meant nothing to her the whole tiome she went out with me. This was after she faked an illness so that I'd visit her in hospital after I broke up with her, so I suspect she was just trying for the most hurtful thing she could say to get revenge.
2006-09-19 10:06:23 · answer #7 · answered by crownose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow the meanest thing every said to me was the best part of you ran down your daddy's leg
Sound like you pick real winners why don't you go get a sheep wooly and will keep you warm at night
2006-09-19 10:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by Wondering If ? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Woww,i should thank you for your Q,because i just realised i never heard a nasty thing all my life considering being with few women,but i heard some stuff behind my back which i can't care!
2006-09-19 11:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are correct you might have bean arround the wrong women
take your time get to know yourself and listen to the next woman you meet
ask her to show you what she likes in bed
and man who ask is a mark of a great lover
2006-09-19 10:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋