Hell all, on the 6th of this month me and my man were kissing and stuff, we got caught up in the moment and soon we were naked. he asked me could he try and stick the head in, me begin a virgin i said ok he tried and it hurt so i screamed and told em to take it out which it did. And i dunno if he had pre-*** coming out or what but my period is late. Am i just paranoid or should i be worried. Please help somebody!!!! Im so nervous i feel like throwing up.
2006-09-19 02:53:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
f.y.i. i didn't lose my virginity i freaked out when he tried. he was so close to it though i was thinking could i be. im like a couple days late.
2006-09-19 03:05:56 · update #1
I wanna thank those of you for you positive input. look for the ones chastising me you can't get mad because im only human and people have curiousity IMA 18 YRS VIRGIN for godsake! anyways i just told my mom and she doesn't think so. but she's ok though she's not mad she's happy that i told her. and that took some stress off the problem. but the thing is she wants me to wait another week. *sigh*
2006-09-19 04:38:49 · update #2
i think it is just all in your head!! i mean the way u make it seem u didnt even get it all the way in u! you have to break your hymen and it dosent sound like he even went far enough! just calm down and take a test! your peirod is most likely late because your worrying!
2006-09-19 04:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by brittany1121 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to raise your fears - but precum is more potent then the actual *** itself. On the other hand, being a virgin may be working in your favour as your body will react to clean itself of the "invasion". Your period could be late due to stressing over it all. But there is only one sure fire way to know yes or no for fact. Wait for the next period to be due, this should put you around the 8 week mark then seek a pregnancy test. You can go to your Dr and request one and/or a local health clinic to have it done "anonymously", and/or a home pregnancy test. I wish you the best - and i would also like to say i am very proud of you! Generally speaking the curiousity of the opposite sex comes up at the age of 10 and by 13 one cannot help themselves and feel the need to experiment. You should be proud of you too!
2006-09-19 10:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The 6th of this month? I would beleive it is probably to early for you to find out anyway. Try relaxing and not letting it get to you. If your period is a no show for the month of October, try taking a home pregnancy test (or if your not sure how to do it your local health department performs test for about the same cost as it would be for you to buy a decent home pregnancy test), if it comes up positive, then you can pretty much plan on the results. Most of the tests are pretty accurate. If your negative, take this as a blessing in disguise. If you are intending to have sex and not a baby it is very important to protect yourself against that. And sex doesn't only cause babies, babies is a big worry however there are things out there that can take your life from you...so if your trying to do good things with your life, don't make stupid decisions about having unprotected sex. Good luck, relax and let time tell.
2006-09-19 10:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by mtcmmommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More than likely its your stress and worrying over maybe being pregnant making your period late. But if you are a couple of weeks late, go ahead and take a pregnancy test. If it is negative your period will soon follow because you won't be worrying all the time. If it is positive then I wish you all the best. Please consider adoption before abortion if you don't want to keep your baby.
2006-09-19 10:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by GreeneyedCowgirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stress can cause your period to be late, but you can get pregnant the first time even if he just put it in a little. You always need to use protection. Not just for pregnancy but also for STD's. Take a home pregnancy test. The odds are low that you are pregnant, but it is possible. Try not to stress about it, and just be more careful in the future.
2006-09-19 10:03:11 · answer #5 · answered by kat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How late are you? Are you usually late? You may be too worried ! Get a pregnancy test done and it will relieve your mind! My daughter got pregnant at 16 and married and it is sad but I would not have it any other way now because I am crazy about my grandson! She is now 18.
2006-09-19 09:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by angelwinks619@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish the moment would have been more romantic and idyllic, you deserve nothing but the best! If you are worried you may be pregnant, go to you local pharmacy and get a test kit and solve your uncertainty. I hope is just a scare. If it is real, talk to your mom or somebody you trust. I hope your man is among those you trust.
2006-09-19 10:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by 'stavo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is great that you stayed a virgin until 18.......should have held onto it until marriage but that is my opinion. If your period is late and you are that nervous....go buy a pregnancy test kit and try that. Or go to your doctor. And if you are you have a big decision to make. Good luck
2006-09-19 10:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could very well be pregnant. I am sorry to tell you that most guys that excited are lettting go. Stress and worry can also cause you to be late wait a little longer and see if you start.
2006-09-19 09:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by wolfy1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just take it easy because my period was real late before like a month but i wasn't pregnant i was irregular and the doctor said that some older kids get like that but they wanted to put me on birth control pills but i didn't want them and that next month my period came and when it came i bleed real heavy cramps was nasty so just dint go crazy just wait and see but if you dint feel right just go to the doctor. and then they will tell u.
2006-09-19 10:01:34 · answer #10 · answered by Aletha l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋