heres the deal, i have had this best friend for 2 years now and she is very very pretty and has the best body...she always talks about her sexual experiences and flirts with me like let me walk in on her changing clothes and seeing her underwear or bikini but i dont know when she is messing me about or generally flirting with me...
she now does sports massage at college and told me that they have to practise on each other and she is only aloud to wear pants when being massaged and the idea really turned me on but im trying to think of ways to get her to give me a massage or me give her a massage so i can see her in underwear then make a move or vice versa...
she has said a few words about practising on someone but it wasnt bout me..is it wrong to try and get her into a massage situation then make a move on her? what else could i do?
2006-09-19 02:25:00 · 22 answers · asked by mathews1243 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
go ahead.
2006-09-19 02:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Communication is the key? talk to her , tell her how you feel. this will save any awkward moments and a possible loss of friendship. She may feel the same and is having the same issues about telling you , or she may just be that comfortable with your friendship she doesn't see how you could be anything else, hence taking of her clothes in front of you, she doesn't feel threatened by you so trusts you. For her to do that and want nothing from you shows she is very comfortable with your friendship. this is a tricky one so don't blow it , talk to her and accept the fact if she says no , you have a wonderful friend and nothing has changed. if you go charging in there like a bull in a china shop you are likely to get a slap across the face or lose a dear friend.
2006-09-19 09:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have exposed her body to you because she simply feels that close to you as a friend, she may not have any other feelings toward you other than friendship. If you are truly her friend and not just because you want to hook up with her- you could totally blow your friendship by making a move on her...think about it...are your hormones worth losing your friend over. Think long and hard about it. Once you make a move in the wrong direction, you'll never be able to take it back.
2006-09-19 09:33:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a tease unless she is waiting for your slow *** to make a move. Then again you may make a move and create a very ackward situation. Tough to tell. You may want to start flirting back and see how she takes it. If she does it back still then step it up some more, you know like maybe pinch her butt or something while you guys are joking around and see if she gets offended, I dont know.
2006-09-19 09:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Amy >'.'< 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said this is your best friend and yet all you keep saying is how bad you want her. Sounds to me like you are just horney.
If you want to ruin your friendship, then make your move. However, if you want a relaitionship with her, then approach her that way. You need to make sure that you want a relationship and not just sex. Trust me, once you cross that line, there is no turning back.
2006-09-19 09:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to make a move do it now. Why wait for the massage??
2006-09-19 09:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could also flirt back or tease her as well. If she wants you, she'll step it up but if all these ''teasing'' won't get you anywhere, then stop punishing yourself and tell her to her face that you want her or put her in a tight spot and kiss her.(Not all girls like this idea). However, be a man and do your thing.
2006-09-19 09:39:11 · answer #7 · answered by Banana Pie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her straight out that you've been thinking about asking her to give you a massage.
2006-09-19 09:28:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Tell her that you have feelings for her. Don't make it a spur-of-the-moment thing with the massage trick.
2006-09-19 09:27:26 · answer #9 · answered by DrSH 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Makes you sad when you come to realise your best friend is just that your best friend and doesnt want you as a lover,, I have a woman friend also who I consider my BF,, and I know she doesnt want anything more than to talk to me about her life,,,, I could offer so much more but that isnt what she wants,,
you can tell her she can practice on you,,, you never know when it might progress, but I doubt it will since she talks about her sex life to you,,,
2006-09-19 09:29:31 · answer #10 · answered by rich2481 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong but it's a terrible idea. Don't ever date your best friend.
However, if you're willing to compromise your friendship, then I'd say go for it.
2006-09-19 09:28:54 · answer #11 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋